I’ve only ever had sex with my long term bf! I don’t think it’s as scary as long as you avoid hookup culture because neither of us knew what we were doing for a long time and we would just giggle through it

66

No but that’s valid. Sometimes it’s like I really wanna have sex but like eek

63

when i was a virgin i was absolutely petrified. more so because i was insecure of my body and afraid it was gonna hurt. but when you have a good relationship with the guy weather ur hooking up or dating that helps so much with confidence. and as far as it hurting, it did tbh but it was not the worst pain i’ve ever felt and he went slow and was respectful. so truly there isn’t really much to be afraid of. just find the right guy and be confident!

30

That’s totally valid!! All it is is your body recognizing its worth! When the time comes (if you chose for it to) having intimacy with someone you really trust who will validate you and your body is one of the most awesome things ever :)

16

Non-virgin! Thinking about sex still scares me too🥲

15

I used to feel this way when I was and now it low-key scares me even more that I have

11

I was scared for a long time and did regret a bit who I lost it to but now I found someone who I have a great connection with and it truly makes a difference. Please don’t be scared find someone who you are comfortable with and it makes all the difference

5

Same ngl 😭

4

Honestly sex is overrated

3

😳

1

As a virgin I just had this conversation with my bestie, who isn’t, and even she said the idea of being with another person again scares her as well lol

1

lol

0

Nah same (I got 100 bodies)

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As it should!!

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