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boyfriend of 5 years hasn’t made me orgasm once. He does everything right, feels wonderful, pleases me, but i just don’t climax. Makes me feel like a failure of a woman lol
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Anonymous 6w

can you finish by yourself? if so that means its possible! but i really wouldn’t feel bad, you’re not alone. and in the end if you both feel good and pay attention to each other that’s just as important as orgasming

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Anonymous 6w

😔

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Anonymous 6w

Its ok girl i get it

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Anonymous 6w

I have been with my gf for almost 5 years as well and I deal with this too. It could be a lot of things but try to not out pressure on it if you enjoy it then it’s fine even if you don’t get there. But maybe try some new stuff to see if it helps everyone is different.

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Anonymous 6w

I Can take your mind off him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Its important to know though that you’re not failing at anything. There’s tons of different reasons and factors that go into this. For example i take antidepressants so it makes orgasming really difficult. Have you talked to him about it? It might make you feel better

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I take antidepressants as well. And yes, we’ve talked a lot about it over the years, it’s more just something that I can’t stop lamenting over in private

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I really understand. I have the same thing with my gf it’s just impossible for me to most of the time. It’s good that you talk about it though! That’s the most important thing is that he listens and is open to hearing you out, not angry and blaming you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Thanks for the reply! It makes me comforted to know we’re not the only ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Trust me I’m glad I’m not alone too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Ewwie

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