
okay so to get in the rhythm of feeling it out, you can try being naked on your back and rocking back and forth (so your legs go back over your head and then back down) and spread your legs as you do it. you can try opening your legs as you go back and then closing them as you go down and mess around with that to see whether anything happens. sometimes it takes a while but if you keep rocking with momentum with your legs spread and pussy out you can start to get the feel of it.
oh and slightly curl your lower back in so ur at an angle. basically once u get the feel of it tho u can try activating muscles in your lower abdomen to suck in and push out. it’s a weird sweet spot u kinda have to acquire but once u get it, it’s not too hard. also the good girl comment is crazy lol