Anonymous #1 17h

there’s many bad ways babe

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Anonymous #2 17h

he believed that shit too

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Anonymous #3 16h

i knew he’d be insufferable about it

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Anonymous OP 16h

You could have guided him through it?

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Anonymous #3 16h

so why would i do all that just for him to probably still be mediocre anyway

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Anonymous OP 16h

Would have been better then what he actually did

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Anonymous #3 16h

if his next partner intends to see him more than once it can be their problem but i’m not doing all that for a hookup

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Anonymous OP 16h

That’s fair lol

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Anonymous OP 16h

😭😭 I’m sorry

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Anonymous #5 16h

Exactly

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Anonymous #5 16h

there’s not gonna be a next time babe

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Anonymous OP 16h

next time you’re with a man in GENERAL babe

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Anonymous #5 16h

again there’s not gonna be a next time

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Anonymous OP 16h

oh so he’s turned you into a nun?!

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Anonymous #5 16h

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian

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Anonymous OP 16h

not all vaginas are the same?! just because you hook up with people with the same organ doesn’t mean they’re going to be better at it… PLS grow up & learn how to communicate bc people like you are genuinely insufferable

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Anonymous OP 16h

If you knew he would be insufferable about sex. Why have sex with him😭😭

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Maybe because you don't communicate and fake orgasms with men? Seriously now this dude is gonna go on thinking what he did is some power move. You've given the next partner of his a bad time. Literally just communicate like an adult and it would've been fine.

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Anonymous #6 16h

well i couldn’t just get up and walk my happy ass home if he was the one who drove me

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Anonymous #6 16h

then that’s their problem idk i just wanted him to stop it

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Anonymous #5 16h

Literally? Like now this guy is gonna do that to the next girl. It's SO immature and silly. Why have sex with someone if you can't even tell them what you like? Everyone is different. OP is so weird for this

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Anonymous #8 15h

then that can be her problem but honestly i don’t think he’s getting many hookups

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Anonymous OP 15h

Then tell him to stop 😭 Correct it in the moment so it doesn’t happen again, or continue to happen if you don’t like it.

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Anonymous #10 15h

well it won’t happen again i’m never fucking him again

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Anonymous OP 15h

Such as?

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Lmao that backfired on you crazy

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Anonymous OP 14h

Well why’d you even hook up with him to begin with then

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Anonymous OP 14h

Idk I think you could’ve just masturbated and avoided this whole situation that you made up for yikyak karma

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dude that’s such a crazy thing to say i dunno why everyone is upvoting you. people having multiple partners in the past doesn’t make them easy and maybe OP should have told him but she didn’t owe him anything it sounds like he was just a hookup… plus that can be dangerous with certain men.

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also i feel like maybe don’t be on a sex page/stories about sex page if you’re promoting purity culture

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Anonymous #9 14h

LITERALLY i don’t get why people are mad asf at OP for not telling him. She doesn’t owe him anything and it’s not her problem if he’s bad the next time he hooks up with someone. Like yeah sorry to the next girl but it’s not OP’s job to coach him

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Anonymous OP 13h

so im just confused at why u even got w him😭🤔

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Anonymous #15 13h

What are saying dangerous with certain men. We are adults that we don’t owe you anything is an excuse to speak up.

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Anonymous #22 12h

just doing it wrong tbh

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Anonymous OP 12h

lord have mercy 🙄

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Anonymous #12 12h

i didn’t expect this many upvotes damn??? im posting shit to post shit

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Anonymous #14 12h

is that my fucking job

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why

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ew what a weird thing to say

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Anonymous OP 12h

You could’ve said that then lmao?

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Anonymous #21 11h

it is dangerous with certain men? i’ve had men get very anger and violent for speaking up about stuff like that before and it’s scary. It’s also emotionally draining many times to try to explain and teach someone how to do things and you’re not always going to feel like doing that and that’s okay. She doesn’t owe him a lesson on sex just because she agreed to hookup with him.

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Anonymous #19 11h

Very good point, I agree

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Anonymous #16 11h

🫶🏾

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Anonymous #1 11h

It’s different for different people but being too rough, too fast, too much pressure, too dry, too soon, too concentrated. Using nails, pinching. Some people like these things but some people don’t or might not depending on where their mind/body is at the moment. Just start slow and gentle and don’t be overly focused on the clit. I like to ask “anything you want me to do differently?”

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Anonymous #15 10h

People on here choose the wildest hills to die on

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Anonymous OP 7h

I feel like he’d be even more insufferable if he thought he made you cum in 10 seconds

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Anonymous #30 7h

that’s not my problem anymore because i’m never talking to him again

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Anonymous #1 6h

Why are y’all downvoting them?? People can ask questions. Wouldn’t you rather them ask and get better?

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Anonymous #29 6h

Idk why there so many downvotes on this if yall want to be fingered good, let the boys know

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Anonymous #29 6h

that’s not my job

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Anonymous OP 6h

It’s not but like the night can go better

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Anonymous #29 6h

it is so tiring to teach people this stuff because a lot of them don’t listen and it just makes it more frustrating. beyond that he’s just a hookup she doesn’t owe him a lesson on this stuff

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Anonymous #29 6h

im never speaking to this man again so i couldn’t care less

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Anonymous #35 6h

hm i sure do wonder why i wouldn’t want to tell a man im not into it anymore

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Anonymous #35 6h

why are you blaming other people for men’s egos? that’s just the way they are and if they can’t catch a hint they can’t catch a hint.

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Anonymous OP 6h

right, a guy is gonna murder you because you told him he’s not sexually pleasing you correctly. and i’m saying this as a woman.

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Anonymous #35 6h

how do you know i didn’t have a bad feeling from this guy though? you weren’t there

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Anonymous #15 6h

maybe because women like OP are inflating their egos by faking an O?? can you read?? they think they’re doing it right when women like her act like that.

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Anonymous #35 6h

ewww look dude, if a guy tells you you’re really sexy and you carry that with you forever and make that your personality and it inflates your ego i think you have bigger problems and that’s what you’re saying rn. He can figure his stuff out but it’s not her job to work it out for him. It takes almost everyone time to figure out how to do sexual stuff and what he was doing could perfectly well feel good to another woman or not because people are different and it was just a one time hookup for her

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Anonymous OP 6h

Not crazy

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Anonymous #36 6h

well no actually men are stupid

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Anonymous OP 6h

Interesting. So they just believe it when u said u orgasmed?

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Anonymous #36 6h

yeah

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Anonymous OP 6h

Crazy

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Anonymous #36 6h

it’s not that unbelievable lmao

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Anonymous #36 6h

I wish I could fake it. I just don’t know how to

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Anonymous #36 6h

Well men I have been around are not that stupid. They will know for SURE. So I can’t even fake anything

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Anonymous #36 5h

for sure?? i doubt that

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Anonymous #37 5h

i am too this guy kinda solidified that fact for me

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Anonymous OP 5h

Are all lesbians of our generation just girls who had too many bad fingering encounters?

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Anonymous #29 5h

well no im not a lesbian because of bad sex with men

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Anonymous #37 5h

twin ❤️

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Anonymous OP 5h

Sounds like you just said the push over the edge was a guy that couldn’t finger you?

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Anonymous #37 5h

yeah but that was one specific instance, not the whole reason

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Anonymous #29 4h

the push over the edge was this guy making me realize im not attracted to men

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Anonymous #6 48m

I don’t think it’s her responsibility to make sure the next girl has a good experience. When she’s the one involved she can do whatever she feels comfortable with. If faking an orgasm to make it stop felt like the safest option then what’s the fucking problem? Stop catering to men and treating them like little babies who need to be coddled. Let women do what they feel comfortable with in bed you freak

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