
this kink/fantasy is called CNC or consensual non consent. he clearly didn’t execute it right, seeing as you did NOT consent to everything he wanted to do. the correct way to engage in a CNC scene is to treat it like a SCENE, like you’re acting out a SCRIPTED scenario. you need to both know exactly what’s going to happen and what is/isn’t ok… i’m so fucking sorry that happened to you. he shouldn’t have asked that of you or done that, and i hope you made sure he knows how fucked up it was.