Hookup Horror Stories on Yik Yak | There’s a girl I’ve hooking up with for some months now, and her pussy is good, but her head was terrible the first time I asked, then never asked for it again over numerous times, I love head tho, should I just ask her again and tell her how to do it?

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There’s a girl I’ve hooking up with for some months now, and her pussy is good, but her head was terrible the first time I asked, then never asked for it again over numerous times, I love head tho, should I just ask her again and tell her how to do it?

Anonymous 5w

stop being weird and just tell her how

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Anonymous 5w

Ask her again. Tell her when she’s doing good(what specific thing feels good) and then in the moment you could ask for specific adjustments. I first give head to my situationship and asked for tips so a little diff from ur situation, but it was really helpful to hear even things that should’ve been obvious like “you can use ur hands too” or “focus on the tip”. Bc even though I knew that in my brain, in the moment I was nervous/too focused on avoiding teeth to add flair.

Anonymous 5w

Make it something hot by being like “I want to show you how I want it” and talk her through it. Praise when she does it right, and when she’s off “I want you here// i want more of ____ it’s so good.” Can be really sexy and avoid a situation that feels like ur saying she’s bad at head.

Anonymous 5w

i think personally, as a man, if you want to be in a position to instruct someone how to give it, you better be in a relationship with them and be giving it to them on the regular as well. I don’t care if she “doesn’t ask for it”. Shouldn’t have to

Anonymous 5w

yes, as a woman who hates head id love to be told what to do and how you like it. dont ask me for it if you arent gonna give me any direction basically. help her out bro.

Anonymous 5w

i bet you don’t give her head

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Anonymous 5w

yes

Anonymous 5w

let me try

Anonymous

#2 5w

It’s not even a matter of being weird, I actually didn’t want to hurt her feelings she had already said she feels like she’s bad at it, and before I didn’t feel like teaching her 😭 I lowkey don’t be feeling like teaching people shi that’s why I like them a lil experienced but we’ve been talkin for a while so that’s why I considered it

Anonymous

OP 5w

Then maybe stop wasting her time and talk to someone who is experienced

Anonymous

#2 5w

I’m not wasting her time, we value eachother and our bond that’s why we still mess with eachother, it’s just that one thing

Anonymous

#4 5w

Nah but she’s never asked, if she did I would

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Anonymous

OP 5w

it’s because women aren’t empowered to ask. we are socially conditioned to be insecure and selfless in the bedroom. you should ask her if you can give her head. women need head usually to finish. men don’t. it’s sad that you don’t prioritize her pleasure at all and instead criticize her efforts to prioritize you. it’s a fucked up world we live in and you’re a part of the problem. you need to grow up and do better.

Anonymous

#4 5w

Why’re you just assuming I don’t prioritize her pleasure and that she doesn’t still finish when we have sex?😭 it’s not like I’m criticizing her publicly I came here for advice. And I’ve asked for head once over tons of times we’ve had sex… she’s never asked neither so it just doesn’t happen. You’re acting like I said no I wouldn’t give her head even if she asked😂

Anonymous

OP 5w

because you don’t give her head and most women cannot finish from PIV sex. we have little to no nerve endings inside the vagina. no woman I know has ever finished from PIV sex, only faked it. she’s most likely faking it with you if it’s just casual. that’s what most women do. and you should be giving her head every time you have sex, as you’re using her vagina for your own pleasure. it’s only fair. also the fact that you expect head from her but you don’t give head to her is pretty telling.

Anonymous

OP 5w

and again, as a man, you should be asking to give head to her. a real man encourages a woman to feel good in the bedroom.

Anonymous

#4 5w

I still do encourage her and she still has an amazing time 😂

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Anonymous

#4 5w

Ma’am maybe you and the women you asked haven’t had good enough sex for that to happen from what I’m hearing and I am sorry for you but that doesn’t go for every women, I’m not expecting head I just told you I don’t even ask for it and I’m not just using her for vagina the benefits are beneficial 😂 stop trying to make it seem like I’m the bad one in this situation , nobody is

Anonymous

OP 5w

I meant the benefits are mutual ^^

Anonymous

OP 5w

no, I have had much better sex then what you’re offering your hookup and that’s why my standards are high. my boyfriend of four years eats me out every day. without PIV sex. so it’s bizarre for me to hear about men like you and how selfish some men are. it’s not my fault you don’t put the effort in and don’t understand female anatomy. women should not be settling for the type of sex you’re giving

Anonymous

#4 5w

I mean to be fair when I was with my ex I was eating her out everytime first, You can’t compare a hookup to an actual partner… she actually use to tell me no but I convinced her to let me then she loved it. But obviously a hookup is different from my ex… and the hookup still enjoys the sex , everyone’s standards are different and you can’t speak for every women . You don’t know how my sex goes stop just assuming smh

Anonymous

OP 5w

fair enough I’m not involved in hookup culture obviously so I don’t know how much effort people put in during hookups but clearly she puts in effort for you since she’s giving you head, when you don’t even need it to get off. and yeah every woman is different but I know a lot of women are scared to say what they want so I would encourage you to at least try to ask. just because she’s not speaking up for herself doesn’t mean you should just disregard something that is pleasurable for a woman.

Anonymous

#4 5w

That’s the thing, she’s not giving me head 😭 I don’t ask for it. I’ve only asked for it once out of numerous times we’ve had sex is what I’ve been saying. But yeah I’ll probably ask her eventually as we get more and more comfortable , I’m not reluctant to it . I just haven’t 🤷🏽‍♂️

Anonymous

OP 5w

yeah I guess yall aren’t comfortable with each other because you’re just hooking up, I really only view things through the lens of a relationship so I can understand that. maybe just start a conversation about doing more in the bedroom? And then you can bring up you wanting head and whatever else you want to do and see what she says. obviously don’t be like oh you’re bad at it but say you like it done a specific way to feel good. you have nothing to lose if it’s just a casual thing.

Anonymous

#4 5w

If you react this way to a strangers sex life on social media I am sorry for your bf. This is coming from a guy who ENTHUSIASTICALLY asks to give head to his partner no matter the context of the sex. Oh and also made my ex squirt and whole body shake from PIV (thank you g-spot)

Anonymous

#5 5w

just trying to take sex out of the standards of patriarchy. what’s wrong with that? i have no problem with commenting on others’ sex lives and my boyfriend does the same. saying you’re sorry for my boyfriend is misogynistic when im just speaking out about women’s issues. also the g-spot is a myth created my men. they can’t even prove it to be real as there’s little nerve endings in the vagina. do your research.

Anonymous

#4 5w

It’s kind of more of a situationship more than just hooking up tbh , we’re comfortable but at the same time I just haven’t felt like asking but yeah I will talk to her abt it

Anonymous

OP 5w

People are so all or nothing. Yeah, talk to her. See if she’s open to letting you guide her a bit. You don’t have to frame it as teaching her how, just showing her what you like

Anonymous

OP 5w

Dawg u should always eat before hopping in tbh. Make her finish, then u finish. Just suggest it because u also wanna look like u care and ik u do

Anonymous

#9 4w

Thank you

Anonymous

lemon. 4w

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