Hookup Horror Stories on Yik Yak | These guys are picking the “easy” girls who let them fuck them and entertaining them while the girls (me) who say no and don’t want to fuck get no texts for days/hours, no plans nothing.. why am I being punished for not fucking someone raw the first night

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These guys are picking the “easy” girls who let them fuck them and entertaining them while the girls (me) who say no and don’t want to fuck get no texts for days/hours, no plans nothing.. why am I being punished for not fucking someone raw the first night

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Anonymous 7w

So I get your frustration but please try to remember who you’re mad at (the patriarchy and shallow men). It’s not the fault of “easy” girls and there’s nothing wrong with sleeping around if they want to. I also promise you men are not treating them better. Purity culture harms us all and we have to stick together as women!

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Anonymous 7w

So let’s not put other girls down. Everyone make their own decisions and has consequences for their actions. If you are not getting a text back from a guy that’s because he chose not to text you back, it’s not any girl’s fault. Ew fr

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Anonymous 7w

There is greater reward to being picky, thus you waste less time and avoid dangerous situations

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Anonymous 7w

At least you don’t have to worry about getting pregnant

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Anonymous 7w

Everyone is entitled to their own way of living life, you shouldn’t put down others for having sex when they want to. That being said, if you don’t want to don’t feel like you have to in order to be with someone. You will find someone who respects your boundaries regarding sex and intimacy.

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Anonymous 7w

You want the wrong guys

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Anonymous 7w

“Those other girls are trashy while I’m not, why am I not getting picked?!” Thats what you sound like my love Some guys are just like that (SADLY), if they want sex and you dont they wont talk to you, simple. It took me some time to realize this Just focus on your own life, have passions, and wait for the person thats willing to take it slow with you. While you’re at it there’s no need to look down on girls that are sexually active just cause you’re not.

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Anonymous 7w

You’re not being punished. You’re not entitled to attention. If you want more attention from men but not sexually you could have a dating profile that made it clear you want to wait or meet men at clubs(the school kind) or a religious group.

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Anonymous 7w

At least they’re leaving you alone though. I have someone texting me basically ever week because he’s thirsty for a hookup with me💀

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah, sorry dude but we’re out there. You’ve got to examine where you’re finding these guys. I promise, there are a lot of men interested in romance over sex, it’s just a matter of finding them.

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Anonymous 6w

This!!

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Anonymous 6w

If you want plans make them if you want a text, text people.

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Anonymous

#1 7w

You’re only young once. I’m getting all my mistakes out of my system now. Plus, I don’t wanna be old and then resent myself for not having enjoyed my youth. Even now as just a college student, I get angry thinking about how I used to act like a saint in high school because I grew up catholic. I had so many chances to mess around with attractive people and I turned it down…and for what? I didn’t gain anything.

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Anonymous

#3 7w

You also don’t gain anything for opening wide for every attractive person you meet either. Except a std.

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Anonymous

#4 7w

That’s why you go to the doctor and get tested often. I’ve never had anything scary.

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Anonymous

#6 7w

Decenter men fr

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Anonymous

#6 7w

Amen, you said it much more succinctly than I was able to

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Anonymous

#3 7w

I don’t understand how people can just sleep around without a care- I’m not someone who says you must be married to have sex but an act that to me requires such a high level of vulnerability.

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Anonymous

#5 7w

Women exercising sexual autonomy to fuck guys they want to fuck and you’re complaining about the “patriarchy?” What happened to women’s agency?

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Anonymous

#11 7w

Did you read the comment you replied to? They’re saying that we shouldn’t shame women for exercising their autonomy

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Anonymous

#11 7w

Yeah as 13 said I support women fucking or not fucking whoever they want, and I hate the policing of women’s autonomy by calling every woman who doesn’t have the exact right amount of sex “easy” or “a prude”.

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Anonymous

#5 7w

“Easy” are what they call the girls who sleep with anyone the first night

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Anonymous

OP 7w

And so you decide to join the band wagon? What a sad excuse

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Anonymous

#3 7w

it only takes one time to be fair, testing doesn’t prevent anything just confirms. but i still agree, yolo lol. i understand both sides but the religious ppl who are judgmental acting like their way is conducive to a happy marriage is hilarious.

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Anonymous

#17 7w

Yes, but you can treated right away if you caught something before it progresses further.

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Anonymous

#7 6w

#humblebrag

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Anonymous

#3 6w

if you get herpes it doesn’t matter what you do. ofc things chlamydia you’ll be able to catch and treat early yeah. but hsv it’s just about managing flare ups at that point

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Anonymous

#5 6w

So it’s okay for women to be slutty but men can’t be slutty?

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Anonymous

#19 6w

No one said that

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Anonymous

#19 6w

Men can be slutty, I love when men are slutty

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