I’m falling in love with my hookup because he’s such a gentleman and he fucks so good but he said he isn’t looking for anything serious (which i respect) SO WHY DO WE TEXT AND FLIRT ALL DAY 😞
He enjoys being single. Him being nice and flirty is just fun for him and he’s not a total asshole. I’m the same way he is and you mentioning wanting a relationship might fuck up the dynamic you have rn
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Anonymous13h
you deserve what you tolerate. if you arent getting what you want... nobody is keeping you there but yourself.
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Anonymous8h
You know what you gotta do girl. Either confess and end it now or set some hard boundaries about texting all day
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Anonymous14h
Id just let it go on like that for a length of time and then tell him how you feel, maybe by that point he’ll feel the same
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Anonymous14h
I might know who this is ngl
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Anonymous#114h
nuh uh
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AnonymousOP14h
Yuh huh
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Anonymous#214h
omg that sounds like a good idea, i just hope he dosent reject me
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Anonymous#114h
guess
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AnonymousOP14h
Are you in eastern us time zone?
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Anonymous#114h
yes
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AnonymousOP14h
Exactly
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Anonymous#114h
that proves nothing 💀
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AnonymousOP14h
Cause in my experience hookups don’t text and flirt all day, so he probably likes you on some level
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AnonymousOP14h
Are you in college
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Anonymous#214h
oh i’m too delusional for this 😞😂
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Anonymous#113h
I in fact dont know who this is
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Anonymous#312h
i literally said i respect his wishes i just didn’t expect to like him that much
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Anonymous#112h
💔
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Anonymous#412h
i know, i might just let him be bc i will catch feelings if we continue this
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AnonymousOP10h
He’ll never take you seriously because you already gave him what he wanted.. why make it serious? Sounds mean but it’s the truth
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Anonymous10h
“You women” shut up bro 😭
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Anonymousmr_wick9h
mr wick grow up
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Anonymous#79h
For Stating a Fact?
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AnonymousOP9h
yeah protect your peace, if hes not open to something more best drop him now before it gets harder to
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Anonymousmr_wick9h
Not every guy wants exclusively sex out of a relationship, that’s a very narrow mindset
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Anonymous#27h
Of course, but didn’t op literally say that this guy has been clear about only being there for a good time. mr_wick’s wording was harsh, but I agree that op will only end up hurt by leaning into the delulu mindset here. She should protect her peace and move on
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Anonymous#27h
thats right, if someone texts back more than 90% of your close friends I’m 90% sure you are already more than friends just without a label.
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Anonymous#107h
Thank you that’s all I’m trying to say, most hookup buddies I know couldn’t care less whether you lived or died if it’s outside of booty call hours
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Anonymous#26h
Nah fr & it is what it is; but it is, not for me lol