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How are these absolute menaces of men getting action and all the nice respectful guys alone
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Anonymous 5w

They lack fear of rejection so they put themselves out there more while nice respectful guys are more scared of it

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Anonymous 5w

Man as the respectful guy, I’m prolly just speaking for myself but I don’t think I’m the best looking, and I feel like if I do ask I’d get seen as a creep or weirdo, besides the already general fear of rejection

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Anonymous 5w

i always see posts like this but i’ve never had this issue. i’m not a menace and when i was single i would say i was pretty ‘active’. just be yourself and be confident. but then also be honest with yourself. look in the mirror, what do you look like? think abt how you approach ppl, how do you act towards women? if you were a woman would you fuck you? just take all of these things into account. you don’t have to be perfect, but being nice and respectful isn’t enough it’s more than that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I don’t know if I’m the only one but as a girl I actually find it really attractive when a guy’s too nervous to come up to me. I don’t see it as cowardly at all, I think it’s kind of adorable, like he must think I’m out of his league or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Understandable but your chances of ending up with someone greatly increase the more you put yourself out there which they do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

To be honest just depends on your tone and how you ask it but if you know your not a creep or a weirdo then there’s nothing wrong with just ask buddy 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Ik what you’re saying, but I’ve genuinely just seen to many stories of people getting screen shotted on snap, recorded, posted to a gc, seen as a pervert, and they genuinely just wanted to get to know a girl, ik there are creepy people out here but yk, not everyone is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Ig that makes sense but I was talking about in person but I understand what you mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Oh yeah definitely in person is the way to go which is what I do most time, but I be scared I come off in a weird way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Ya I don’t know I guess just ask nicely idk man 😭😭😭🤷🏽‍♀️

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