It’s a hookup not a love story… I had to find this out the hard way 😭

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Most men don’t give shit about women after they have sex with them. Don’t expect that from them or stop having hookups.

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I am a man and this happened to me. She sent me nudes telling me to come over asap. Made her finish and told me to leave 5 minutes after she caught her breath. Literally just wanted to hang out and go thrifting and she said no. Shit sucks but we keep pushing

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If your partner was a man, this is kinda common. Sex, especially when young and hooking up, feels like a performance. After you climax, it can feel like a bomb is ticking. How long until I fuck this up? How long until I can be alone again and come down off of the high of performance? So wrapped up in making sure it’s good and they do well that all they want after is to be able to mentally exhale. It ain’t you, my friend. You just wind down differently than them.

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