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My ex became a big ass racist after we broke up an I am genuinely EMBARRASSED to say I ever dated that disgusting human who was also physically and verbally abusive. Does anyone else here have dating guilt how do I overcome that?
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Anonymous 20h

Bc while we were together he never made racist remarks around me or said the N word (maybe bc he knew how I felt about it) and once we broke up I see him slurring and saying racist shit and I feel like I got so played bc I truly never saw that shit when we were together and now I am so embarrassed and guilty to have ever been w him. HATE him!!!

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Anonymous 16h

I dated a bigot too and felt guilty about my own values with I left. Know it’s okay to talk about it and it helped me when I did, as well as continue to love everyone around you and give support to those in need

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

*when I left

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