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So I’m supposed to be goin on a 1st date with a guy in 2 weeks and he asked if I’d be down to kiss and cuddle. Knowing how most men are, I’m worried he’s probably gonna try to make it lead to sex, and I’m NOT down with that, especially on a FIRST date💀😭
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Anonymous 1d

Then just tell him 😭 If he’s the kind of guy who’s built for a second date, he’s not gonna make a big deal about it. He might not even want to go all the way on the first date either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Alright, it’s gonna be awkward asf, but ima tell him😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Alright, I told him, and he was chill about me not wanting any of that on the 1st date luckily. But my thing is why even bring that up though??😭 But I’m probably just irked by it due to weird past experiences of guys trying to rush into things with me on 1st dates

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

It might feel a little weird the first time but it just makes the vibe a lot more chill, because now he’s not gonna have to do that “does she want me to make a move? Does she not? I know we’re cuddling but I can’t read this situation right now” type of thing Just knowing those expectations makes it a lot easier for him to focus on being himself, and im sure you’ll have a better time for it

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