
Either that or performance anxiety of some sort. I’m a queer man and I couldn’t finish from topping until a year and a half after become active. I still can’t finish from head but I can finish with a condom on or bareback. Ofc it’s way easier bb but I think my issue was performance anxiety, and I still think that with head. I don’t JO a lot either, maybe 1xday
Eh I think this is a bit too broad of a generalization. I see where you’re coming from but just speaking from personal experience I always have had a difficult time finishing with a condom and I don’t j/o or watch porn when I’m in actively seeing someone. I think ppl just have different bodies and sensitivities.