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ok so I need unbiased opinions on this so say I met this dude and had like a five month long sexual relationship when I was 19 and he was 31 does that make them lwky a pedo or just a creep or is that fine with consent
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lwky pedo
creep
fine tbh
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Anonymous 16w

oh we’re twins. i was also 19 doing it with a 33 year old. now im 21 and i definitely regret it, i’ve matured a lot more and can see that what was going on was not right and as #1 said, the thought of being with someone that’s 18 or 19 is just a no for me.

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Anonymous 16w

You don’t even know the definition of pedophile because you’re using it in this way. you are an adult and it’s not a crime to engage with someone who is younger than you, significantly,though, it may be seen as taboo

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Anonymous 16w

He’s still a predator either way because a 31 year old man has no business getting with someone who recently graduated highschool

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Anonymous 16w

for context y’all I’m 21 now lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

im not accusing nobody of anything man Im just curious cus I’ve gotten alot of mixed responses and idk what to think atp

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

just go with your gut. and quit caring about other people’s “responses” you’re in a relationship with him, they aren’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

it’s a bit odd for sure and he was kinda odd about it like he was definitely into it to some extent. It’s really hard to put in perspective though without being that age and being able to see people the age you were

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Oh I’m 21 now , it just came up in a conversation and I didn’t see it like that before so I was just curious how many other people felt the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Idk even if I’m not 31 I can recognize that where someone is in life at 19 vs 31 is veryyyy different. I’m 21 and already feel iffy at the thought of getting with an 18 or 19 year old, so the fact that someone a decade older than me had no problems doing so is jarring

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Tho ngl I might be biased here because I have trauma from stuff like that, so my opinion on those who have relationships with ppl far younger than them is super low

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

see dude this is the typa shit that always happens when you’re 19. definitely agree especially on 18-19 yr olds, my current partner of like almost 2 years is 23 i cannot imagine wanting to go for a 19 yr old.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

right, like shit even 20s pushing it unless it’s just a couple of months

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