
Idk if this will help bc Ik this is so embarrassing but it’s actually very normal!! Theres not a lot of gay sex education or really any ed around anal but this is a very common first time experience!! Ive had this happen to several partners who had their first time with me, it’s just what happens when your anus opens more than it’s used to and relaxes. Mortifying for the bottom and a little awkward but this definitely isn’t an experience you’re alone with