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People who call themselves feminists but still insist on criticising everything women choose to do with their own lives need to do better. Women deserve not to be belittled if they choose to take on their husband’s name, or if they choose not to.
Women who call themselves feminists but still insist on changing their name to their husband’s need to do better. We deserve a generation of people that carry their mother’s name.
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Anonymous 8h

choice feminism isn't real feminism

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Anonymous 6h

If THEY want to change to their partner’s name, that’s their choice. If they feel pressured to do it, or are telling others they should, that’s not okay. I believe anyone should be allowed to change or keep their name, for whatever reason they choose. Man taking a woman’s name? New name for the new family? Hyphenated? There are many options, and I’d rather people get to choose (under their own terms)

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Anonymous 1h

i feel like whoever has the coolest last name should pass theirs on. if a vocal feminist is ONLY taking her husbands name for patriarchal convention's sake... like ok ig. if shes taking it because his last name is something cool like Wolffe or Explosion that makes sense to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8h

and feminism doesn't mean u can't criticize women (esp when upholding patriarchy)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6h

thank you. choice feminism is destroying the movement like your choices don’t exist in a vacuum..

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