No it’s not. If you have a preference based on something someone can’t control, you have no right to get angry if they ah e a preference based on something you 𝙘𝙖𝙣 control.

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Which one are you saying is ok and which one are you saying is bad?

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This debate is not about whether you can control it or not. I also have medical conditions that affect my weight. What I’m saying is, when we compare what reasons the majority of people use for wanting a certain weight versus a certain height it’s different. When it’s weight related it’s looks. When it’s height related it tends to be about less visual things.

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It’s still something you can’t control. But I mean it doesn’t always equal the same thing. In my experience, AND MY EXPERIENCE ALONE, people I know who prefer a certain height prefer it less for aesthetic reasons and more comfort. Getting hugs, cuddling, their own height…people who have preferred a certain weight have preferred for things like looks. That’s what I mean.

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