My ex told me his best friend asked why he was with a bigger girl and he said “looks aren’t that important to me. She’s got such a winning personality” and I was like “if you don’t find me attractive I’d rather you break up with me” and he said “I do. I just like your personality more” and so I broke up with him and he called me shallow and I was like bitch I’m glad you like my personality but don’t make me feel ugly and unwanted