People lie all the time about who they are, and it’s been shown time and time again that people won’t show their their true colors until during or even after pregnancy. There are ofc some who ignore the flags from the beginning, but many people paint their flags green until the rain washes the paint away. Even so, in this case, one parent had to step up and take responsibility while the other did fuck else. That parent already has that punishment. Leave them be and criticize the one that left

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