Anecdotally it seems to me like you’re wrong. Everyone in my extended family was born well after their parents were married, which doesn’t SEEM like a coincidence. Not sure why you’d think people are pretending. They just know different people and lore and have different samplings to observe

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Bro meet the military family community they are financially incentivized to procreate. They aren’t accidents. Most people aren’t born into the same life circumstances as most people.

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