
I might be misunderstanding you, but I thought this was already the common understanding of incels? Like they have the capability to get laid but keep putting themselves in a self fulfilling prophecy situation where their misogyny drives women away. Or because they believe women are liars they look for supposed red flags with every woman they talk to until they find something to meltdown over and blow up the relationship. So they're just constantly affirming their worldview with self sabatoge