
IVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR YEARSSSS THEY NEED TO BE TREATED AS HUMAN AND INHERENTLY NEUTRAL FOR THEIR WRONGDOING TO BE TREATED AS BAD!! OTHERWISE ITS JUST FULFILLING AN EXPECTATION!! AND THEY WILL NOT FEEL THE RESPONSIBILITY TO IMPROVE!! This all hinges on their wrongdoing to actually be treated as bad tho we gotta double down on that
It’s like when people who hate themselves say “sorry I just suck” when they do something shitty. They think they’re taking accountability when really they’re blaming it on something they think is unchangeable (them sucking). The blame absolves them of responsibility and doesn’t help anyone