it’s actually quite sad. Or when they’re like “june isn’t pride month it’s men’s mental health month” 1. why are you only bringing this up when gay people talk about pride and 2. there are literally gay MEN so both can literally exist together. It’s actually so sad because then men who actually are struggling once again feel like they have no outlet because other men don’t make them feel safe or seen
it’s literally like those people who only bring up their trauma when you try and open up about yours, it’s like a competition. I’ll see a post about a girl getting raped and then the comments will be like “you know men get raped too” well then why aren’t you making a post about it instead of taking away from someone else’s experience