
If your answer to platonically is “sure” and romantic is “not really” it doesn’t really sound like you’re enthusiastic about talking to this man at all, cut him loose cuz it sounds he’s giving more effort than you are. he’s putting in effort for a girl who’s annoyed by it. You don’t deserve his effort platonically nor romantically. He clearly wants to hear your answers to these essay questions or else he wouldn’t ask.
Alright I feel like saying I don’t “deserve” his effort is a bit much. If it came down to it, yeah I could see myself being friends with him at least, but I’m just saying his over doing of the questions he asks me are a bit much sometimes. Please he started talking to me first, so it’s not on me at the end of the day. I don’t owe him attention or anything.
Girl, you’re annoyed by him giving effort to any conversation, you don’t owe him attention, but youre giving him attention and complaining about it online and It’s fine if you don’t like him like that, but you said “sure” to platonically so it didn’t sound like you even wanted to be associated with this man. I’m not saying you don’t deserve him because you’re expected to like him, I say you don’t deserve him because you’re annoyed that he’s putting in effort and complaining instead of leaving.