All men want to be small, cute, and held, and they have to clutch their masculinity because of beliefs like this rooted in some sort of idea that men can’t be feminine or soft, which in my opinion, originates from internalized and unrealized homophobia. Same way how loud girls are labeled as “butch” or “tomboy” which originate from homophobia or at least from someone clutching onto sexist gender norms that say girls can’t be loud and boys can’t be soft. Maybe it’s not internalized homophobia
“all men” babes, that’s your opinion and u cannot speak on behalf of all men and speak as if your belief is absolute and just. u are entitled to your opinion as much as mine, but to throw “homophobia” in my direction when i didn’t even mention sexuality is completely false and unacceptable.