my biggest pet peeve is men who feel like they have to explain every fucking thing in the world to you even if you’re clearly more intelligent, accomplished, and competent than them
I took a psych class once, let me explain to you why you feel that way
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Anonymous5w
I overexplain things sometimes and have been accused of mansplaining 😭 like no I’m just very passionate about some subjects and like going into detail I promise I’m not trying to degrade you
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Anonymous5w
I understand people being annoyed with mansplaining but 9 times out of 10 the guy is just sharing their thoughts with no intention of being an asshole and is just shut down for having insight.
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Anonymous5w
have you ever heard two men talk about a topic or how to do something? they start from the basics and based on feedback from the other person will skip past the bits the other person indicates they already know. try that maybe.
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Anonymous5w
Honestly I just can’t read social cues I never know when I’m over explaining lmao
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Anonymous5w
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Anonymous5w
I don’t expect you to understand much of this social dynamic, but we do this in hope of helping girls find their way of understanding the crazy world around them.
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Anonymous#15w
Dude try to defend yourself, they hate us enough regardless of what we do because most men suck, and all it takes is most of them for the rest to be generalized
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Anonymous#15w
nah bro ur good im just talking about unprompted explanations of random shit that anyone with a brain could figure out
go passionate men!!
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Anonymous#45w
i think the lack of intent is part of it, that it’s so ingrained into our society that he doesn’t even realize that, hey, she already knows all of that! it’s the assumption that she doesn’t that’s the problem
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Anonymous#55w
I think its dependent but def some times when its like ok well youre explaining common sense. Just personally ive been more or less thinking out loud because im trying to process something and get told im mainsplaining
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Anonymous#25w
Yeah, that’s what a generalization is. Also, yes not ALL men, but always a man
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Anonymous#25w
I meant stop trying to defend yourself**
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Anonymous#75w
i don’t understand why you assume that they’d need it. you’re assuming they somehow have less life experience or knowledge than you and that they’d need your help. therein lies the problem
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Anonymous#75w
hey so this is extremely fucked up even if you think it’s normal. the internalized sexism is strong with this one
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Anonymous#75w
Trust, we understand the world.
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Anonymous#75w
“i don’t expect you to understand much of this social dynamic” 😭
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AnonymousOP5w
no actually like how are you mansplaining mansplaining 😭😭😭