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Icks 15w
When men act super chill when they get their feelings hurt. None of you pull it off and the rest of us are put in the awkward position of just going along with it like a child’s imaginary friend. In general, if ur trying to be manly ur emasculating urself
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Anonymous 15w

Well I’d have to pay someone to listen so that’s not happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Or you could just talk to the ppl in your life about how you’re feeling… yk… like emotionally healthy ppl do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

It’s free, too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I thought the rest of us in your post meant the ppl in my life, cuz they don’t wanna hear it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

You need to find ppl that care enough about that they want to hear it. If ur friends don’t care about how you’re feeling they’re shit at being friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Sounds like you’re shit at being a friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Sweetie, I’m sorry I hurt your feelings, but based off ur reaction it seems that u needed to be told that. Wish you the best in finding ppl you feel comfortable being emotionally vulnerable around! It feels great!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Are you friends with these men before they start acting like their feelings aren’t hurt?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I don’t make friends with duds who are afraid of their own emotions, so no. Hence it giving me the ick

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

What do guys who aren’t afraid of their emotions look like?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

It’s not about looks, it’s about actions. Anyone can do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

But also, hot is what they look like

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

This is the problem with y’all. You loveeeee to pretend you had any semblance of friendship with these women you’re trying to date when in reality, how many men do you know say they’re talking to a girl with the sole intention of dating or fucking her? And then you make your pivot of “we’re just friends! (Since you rejected me)” into the woman’s problem and we have to coddle you and shield your feelings because you can’t talk to your shitty, real friends about this. But “men’s mental health” huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

That’s wild cuz I thought she was a real friend. What else I am supposed to do if I still have to be around someone who doesn’t care?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

As a guy, I think you’re just trying to find excuses to sit in your own misery. The most manly thing you can do is make yourself attractive to women, which emotional literacy leaves a really good impact on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

You don’t “have to” be around anyone

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