Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

Oh they do have a relationship. They just won’t tell you about it because they don’t want to admit they’re cheating.

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Anonymous #3 41w

bold of you to assume i can afford children in this economy. but go off king

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Anonymous #2 41w

a 35 yr old male that wants a short term relationship on a dating app… meaning, a 35 yr old male doesnt want to commit to a relationship, and is only interested in hooking up because thats what easiest and most convienent. could not be me 🤢

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Anonymous OP 41w

Again, I don’t get it. Is a 35 year old male not allowed to not want to commit to a relationship?

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Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

While I agree, there is sometimes a lot of shaming when a guy is dating a younger girl. You see a lot of “something’s gotta be up for him to date someone her age” and the gap is only like 4-5 yrs.

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She can do whatever she wants lol. I’m just not understanding why a human being in their 30s is suddenly not allowed to have any sexual activity outside of pursuing marriage? Like is that what yall are trying to say rn

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Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

Most men don’t have the oppurtunity till 30, so they’re trying to have what they couldn’t have in their 20s

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Anonymous #17 41w

For me this isn’t the problem. It’s that I’ve had dates with guys 29, 30, 31 and they withhold that information that they just want fwb basically. I’m 24 but majorly trying to find my husband! I usually find out AFTER a date that they knowingly did not want what I clearly do want

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because he’s on a DATING app. the point is to date. you want to hookup? go to a dive bar. keep that syphillus dick away from me.

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Anonymous #16 41w

odd take but okay.

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Anonymous #7 41w

Well if she’s noticeably younger than him then it is weird and speaks to him being weird. At best.

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Anonymous OP 41w

It’s a dating app that has options for what they’re looking for and he put what he was looking for. Just like he has free will to choose to hookup at 35, you have the free will to swipe left

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Anonymous OP 41w

if that was the case that option wouldn’t exist😭 just because it’s not what YOU want doesn’t mean thousands of other people don’t LITERALLY use that tag. obviously the point is to meet people with the same romantic or sexual interest as you. just swipe left and move on

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Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

Can always freeze your eggs babe

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Anonymous #27 41w

Wait - isn’t it the man and not OP that’s 35?

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Anonymous #21 41w

if she’s matching with him on dating apps i’m assuming she’s in the same age range lol

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Anonymous OP 41w

The majority of people on dating apps just want to hookup. Especially college kids. It may be less common for older adults but it can really be used as whatever the user wants to use it for

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Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

So the post was clickbait basically

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Anonymous #28 41w

it’s been an hour

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Anonymous #27 41w

My guess is that he’s a good bit older than her. Some older gentlemen each for women way younger than them. It’s unfortunate and common. 😭

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Anonymous warrior.lady 41w

So wouldn’t you be GLAD for them to include this in their bio

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Anonymous #26 41w

you gonna pay for that?

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