see, while that may work for a child, we’re also adults. and adults who are trying to build a relationship. i dont need a tv show, about some made up scenario that has little relevance to our situation, to tell me how a person feels. especially when that person is a 33yr old man with a mouth and brain that works. big baby energy is not for me. you have a problem? use your words. speak up. we, women, are not that scary.
for context: i (female) bought tickets to a show. we had plans to meet at his apartment by a specific time. he was there, i waited outside for 35mins (he knew my ETA, i texted when i was 5 mins away AND when i parked, that i was there) .. so i called him 3 times before i left to get to the show on time. he suggested that i shouldve “made more effort” to “get his attention” but it was somehow my fault and i “hurt his feelings” by going without him. mind you, even after i left his apartment…
… his apartment to go to the show, i asked him if he still wanted to go. he literally couldnt give me an answer. and we’re talking on the phone. i asked him SEVERAL times if he wanted to go, and he would turn it on me “do you want me to go” “yes, i would not like to sit by an empty chair, it would be nice to have your company and move past this” “well, i dont think we’re seeing eye-to-eye…” and would go on about how i needed to apologize…
… flash forward to the episode HE picked out of the ENTIRE season of a show i’ve never seen before, just to depict to me how “having introspect is helpful” … all of the things in quotations are things he’s said to me. we no longer speak to eachother. so, sure, call it judgemental, but i dont treat my friends or even people i dont like that way. i didnt even ask him to pay me back for his ticket, btw. he didnt even offer. ladies, stay away from ‘men’ like that.
it was GOLF, episode like 7 or 8? he even asked me “have you seen this yet?” knowing that i dont even have netflix, or really even watch tv at all.. i answered “no, i havent, but it looks good” he scrolls to whatever episode it is that the boy chooses to get back into the golf tournament and owen wilson shows up at the airport to wish him safe travels. boy then goes to the girl “that wronged him” somehow??? and they make up (?) idk. it was ridiculous.
like, dude was a fuckn TRIP. and we didnt even GO ANYWHERE. 😂 i literally told him ive never seen the show, and he went to one of the last episodes in the first season to play that specific thing for me. out of any other rom-com, romance movie, literally any other show he couldve picked… or, idk, having a conversation and using big boy words???? he picked THAT. 💀
Oh dude is insanely dumb 💀 he fucked up and was demanding that you apologize??? And he’s 33?! Like that’s a full ass adult. I hope y’all are broken up completely because that’s just ridiculous. If he can’t apologize or even ACKNOWLEDGE his smaller shitty behaviors, he will never take accountability for the big ones.