When I disclose my mental illnesses to men and they sexualize it. “Oh that’s ok I like em a little crazy”, “ok but mentally ill women are freaks in the sheets” SHIT LIKE THAT IS SO GROSS GET OUTTTTT
I’m an actor and the amount of times that older women have said “oh so you can act like you love me then” is so disgusting 😭 mind you: I am a minor.
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Anonymous4w
OP and #1 I’m so sorry and that’s horrible.
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Anonymous4w
Men sexualize everything too much. Im a man n even I think it gets outta hand.
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Anonymous3w
Stop telling men your weaknesses lol they’ll always use it against you
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Anonymous4w
Yess fr I have rlly bad self harm scars and men have def called them “hot” before
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Anonymous4w
I can’t even cum bc of fucking Serutraline
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Anonymous3w
“I love your beautiful princess disorder” bro what if I stab you
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Anonymous3w
Ok but what you got mami 👀 that kinky bpd or that stank 💦 don’t wash ur ass 🍑💩 depression….. lmk
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Anonymous4w
What’s the proper response to something like that? Pity?
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Anonymous4w
It’s true thooo
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Anonymous#14w
EEWW so fucking weird
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Anonymous#34w
Nah it rlly isn’t my antidepressant makes it so difficult
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Anonymous#64w
Breaking news: man thinks of sex too much to have normal conversation
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Anonymous#24w
🫶
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Anonymous#64w
No but it’s important information to disclose if I’m getting to a point with someone that we may date… obviously..?
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Anonymous#64w
Appropriate responses would be things like “oh ok! How do symptoms manifest in you that I should be aware of?” “Do you typically want company or alone time on a particularly rough mental health day?” Etc etc
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Anonymous#24w
Dude it’s so common it’s insane. And sometimes they say it unprompted. Like so many men have hinge prompts that are like “I go crazy for” and they fill it in as “girls on lexapro” or some bullshit like that
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Anonymous#34w
yuck
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Anonymous#14w
Follow-up question why are you a minor?
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Anonymous#64w
Maybe empathy? Cordiality? You could try to imagine a time you struggled and tell her about it? Are u good
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Anonymous#94w
ya no deadass- how are u on here as a minor💀do u mean ur 17 still?
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Anonymous#93w
Why am I a minor 😭🙏 idfk I was born in 08 (so I’ll be 18 this year at least)
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Anonymous#103w
Yeah I’m 17, but these comments have been happening since I was 14 or so
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Anonymous#13w
that’s disgusting im so sorry you had to deal with that
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Anonymous#113w
Mental illness is not a weakness. And a healthy relationship requires both parties being honest with each other. If I were to become manic around my boyfriend and I never told I have a personality disorder, that could be very concerning