Anonymous #1 2w

Like what is the issue here

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Anonymous #1 2w

Men not holding doors for example ppl don’t like

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Anonymous OP 2w

that’s not masculinity?? how is common courtesy masculine? My nails are purple and I still hold the door for people lol

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Anonymous #2 2w

Men holding the door for women is a traditional thing whether you do it or not Dont be willfully ignorant

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Anonymous OP 2w

Have to disagree it is really a common courtesy and proper manners. I’m attracted to femininity in men and masculinity in women so I guess I missed your point all together OP.

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Anonymous #4 2w

Exactlyyyyy

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Anonymous #3 2w

I’m not sure you’ve ever been on a date but getting told by the dad to hold the door open among other things is pretty normal so I think you missed the point

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Anonymous #4 2w

Not what I said at all but whatever idc

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Anonymous #4 2w

and yall are gonna downvote this but you're just outing yourselves

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Anonymous #4 2w

I’m not sure that traditionalism necessarily implies homophobia, but there’s definitely a big portion of the population where they overlap

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’ve definitely missed the point then, yes. You don’t get the door on a date because it’s manly… You get it because you want to be as nice as possible, and give whoever you’re on a date with a good experience. If you want us to get what you actually mean you might need a different example

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Anonymous #2 2w

Ok idk if ur trying to be obtuse but who is getting the door on these dates? Guys. This is obvious reality and shouldn’t have to be explained

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’m not sure that “guys typically do it” makes it masculine, but we also clearly have different understandings of what masculinity means, so that’s understandable. Could you try a second example of what you mean, maybe from the feminine side? I don’t think this one is going anywhere, since chivalry/traditionalism is kind of separate in most people’s eyes

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Anonymous #5 2w

It’s 2025 so we can all have different opinions dipshit

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Anonymous OP 2w

You can have whatever opinion you want, doesn’t mean you’re right though. Hope this helps🫶

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Anonymous #6 2w

Opinions aren’t objectively right or wrong do you not know what opinion means

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Anonymous #7 2w

Sure if that’s what you took away from this why not

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Anonymous #9 2w

Most guys are considering that’s just Biology for men to be attracted to feminine women

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Anonymous OP 2w

OP, I don’t say this out of pure ideology and selfishness. All of us have both feminine and masculine traits, including yourself! If someone took issue with you, and said you weren’t acting the way a man or woman is supposed to, I’d think that’s fucked up, no matter how much you believed it when they said it. This intolerance mainly hurts yourself, you’re policing and denying your own personality. People tend to treat others as they treat themself. Think bout how you treat yourself OP!

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Anonymous OP 2w

Some opinions are wrong. Racism is an opinion, for example. So is homophobia, sexism, general bigotry

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Anonymous #6 2w

Yeah except diff ppl classify opinions into these categories differently anyway it’s not a catch all. And again theyre wrong to you not everyone. That’s just what opinions means. And the opinion which one gets an ick from in this post is not wrong just cuz u dont like it

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Anonymous OP 2w

So if someone’s opinion is that throwing babies out windows is okay, would that then make throwing babies out windows okay?

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Anonymous #6 2w

Obviously not to us civilized ppl and you can make a whole debate with the killing babies point but there are some horrible ppl in the world such as Africa where they molest babies bc they believe it gets of their std’s. We find this immoral and disgusting but they don’t. Ur getting more into Morality as opposed to opinion

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Anonymous #6 2w

Causing physical harm on innocents is almost universally found reprehensible for a reason

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Anonymous OP 2w

Bare with me here, homophobia *also* causes harm. You can’t just say “it’s my opinion!!!!!!!” and be absolved. Many would agree that racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism, etc are morally wrong, and it’s been proven that they lead to physical and mental harm, so what argument do you really have?

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Anonymous #6 2w

Yeah there’s a huge diff between disliking and physically harming I’m not entertaining this. What if, what if, what if, is diff from actuality

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Anonymous #6 2w

Ppl are entitled to their opinions. Not everyone likes the same things you do. Get over it

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Anonymous OP 2w

Which is great or whatever but you are still spreading harmful shit, so your point is null and void

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Anonymous #6 1w

To you it’s harmful shit. Not everyone else. Quit annoying me

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Anonymous OP 1w

Bitch really said facts don’t matter

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Anonymous #6 1w

Except theyre literally not fact lol. Ppl are entitled to their opinions. You are insufferable and annoying

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Anonymous OP 1w

Petty insults at this big age are embarrassing as HELL

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