
Yeah it’s really disgusting and dehumanizing but there will always be men who believe it’s fine because they are incels who thinks a woman is only good for sex and children. Or they were done wrong by a woman so it makes it ok to call someone that. It’s really embarrassing how some men resort to calling women nasty names instead of growing the fuck up and letting it go.
It’s not about being mean it’s about calling women something dehumanizing. I don’t agree that women should call men wallets though. But at the same time being called a wallet has no sexual context. But if you’d like to compare, I’d love to hear what type of mean things you’ve been called for you to disagree so publicly.
like i agree but doesn’t the normalization of dehumanization kinks, to an extent, perpetuate the idea that women are only objects and that it’s “in their biology”? i don’t think it’s something we should shame ofc bc it’s not their fault they feel kinky abt it but i don’t think it’s something we should necessarily encourage either yk