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Yo, if men stopped being so goddamn afraid of being called “gay” by their homies for being emotional and embracing their feminine side more, they’d actually have A LOT more women be interested in them.
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Anonymous 4d

blah blah blah i kiss the homies goodnight

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Anonymous 4d

A woman and only women have been homophobic towards me because I’m bi

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Anonymous 4d

Nice try diddy

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Anonymous 4d

to add on, men have to actually respect women and that goes a long way too respectfully from a gay guy

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Anonymous 4d

Also, why do some guys think it's an insult to call a gay guy gay? Like… okay, you are correct.

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Anonymous 4d

AS A GAY MAN CLOCK THAT TEA

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Anonymous 4d

U say this yet im 🙀less

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Anonymous 3d

Biggist lie of the century

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Anonymous 3d

This has not been my experience unfortunately.

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Anonymous 3d

For those of you saying it doesn’t work, I can assure you that you’re not as emotionally intelligent and respectful to women as you think you are.

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Anonymous 4d

Wrong, I have lots of girls interested in me bc I’m feminine, they think I’m pretty but won’t date me because they’re far too afraid of what they’re friends would say, or their internalized homophobia would let them wanna f me but not wanna let me meet their parents

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Anonymous 3d

feminine side of a male? uhh.. brain wash central

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Anonymous 3d

I love my guys equally

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Anonymous 3d

See, the problem with this is if and when a man shows emotion or gets emotional it gets thrown up in their face at a later date. Why even show that side of you if someone is just going to use it as firepower against you when the timing is right🤷🏼‍♂️

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Anonymous 4d

Biggest lie ever told by women

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Anonymous 4d

Yea that’s bullshit😂

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Anonymous 4d

As a highly GNC man I can confirm this is 🧢

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

U obviously not part of the problem gang😘

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Dude you have no idea the number of gay guys I’ve seen who are so misogynistic it’s so weird 😪

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Is a man being gay the final evolution of misogyny 🤔

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4d

Idk cuz it’s gay to be gay ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4d

Holy shit we figured it out

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

But that's not an insult lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

see that isn’t normal, i seen some being transphobic too nowadays

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4d

this bruh like is grass green?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

And they hated him for the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

They deserve it tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4d

I’m sorry what 😃

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

People tend to want what they can’t have. Let that sink in.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4d

so actually no

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

boy, are your intentions to get 🐱 or to date

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Well a date but if I get pussy then I feel I’m more locked in so both

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

i’d say look outside of college cuz hookups are more abundant there

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Waitttttt - how did yk im a collage student ?¿ can u read minds ? And na i just want a girl to feed me liquor and message my head

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

yikyak is almost all college students wym and well i mean it’s that’s what you want then put yourself out there and find dates to go on

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Mmmm yea u right - I’ll be back with updates

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

alrighty

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Honestly yeah I’ve seen a lot of homophobia towards men come from women. I’m sorry you’ve been experiencing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Are you the little spoon per chance?

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 3d

A lot of you clearly hold some sort of resentment against women because you’ve been hurt by one before, and I get the instinct is to automatically approach any woman after that with doubt and suspicion, but, that’s the risk you take when making any sort of connection with literally anyone. I get it, I’ve definitely been hurt and used by guys who took my vulnerability for granted, but I still continue to date with hope that at least one guy will cherish my vulnerability.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I’m currently 6 for 6 so far. The most recent one ended on August 1st and being a 6 year relationship. You tend to believe it more as more of the same things happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 3d

Confirmation bias will do that to you, and I won’t ever downplay the hurt one gets from losing a long term relationship with someone. But, that’s the beautiful thing about life, is that with every year you lose with someone, you’ve got so many years ahead of you to spend with someone who’s even better. Give yourself space to heal, and approach your next attempt with the knowledge gained from the mistakes of your previous relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 3d

The worst thing you can do is be all doom and gloom about it. Then you’re bringing that energy into relationships and expecting them all to fail, which they will inevitably do because you’re on the lookout for it The vulnerability thing also applies to everyone, not just men. Anyone can be taken advantage of, man or woman (or nonbinary if that’s the case), but at the same time everyone should be able to express their vulnerability. For some reason society is ok with women doing that…

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

With only women* doing that Mb lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 3d

Oof, you are certainly one to talk about brainwashing. Praying for you G.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3d

People in this post who are saying, “but I still get no bitches,” are showing us that they still don't respect women lol. Also being whiny is different than being sensitive.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Maybe you’re right, idk. I’ve never had a problem making friends with women, though. Do women often make friends with guys that aren’t emotionally intelligent or respectful of women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

Yeah it’s kind of a vicious cycle in that regard. I’m not sure how much of an effect it has on initial interest, though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 3d

Some women certainly do, just as there’s women who will still date men that are without those qualities as well. You just need a little introspection on yourself, a little self reflection. Happy to go into more details on how to start such a process if needed!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Cause bitches hate what they can’t have. They hate the fact that they will have to compete with a man for you and it’s sad.

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