Anonymous #4 5w

none of us complain or walk away either but we’re inwardly sighing

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Anonymous #6 5w

Nah cause at the EOD nobody can make them leave that relationship except themselves! I’ve seen friends do a whole master escape plan just for that person to literally turn around and go right back. Sorry I’m not saving friends who can’t save themselves 🤷‍♀️ . But whenever they’re serious and ready I’ll be there!

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Anonymous #9 5w

Once shit gets hard you dip, as I said yall are shit friends. It’s not hard to be there for the people you care about. You people are complaining about your friends venting a little too much because they are in a bad situation they can’t separate themselves from. A good friend helps bear the fucking load. I have been the therapist friend my whole life. I love and support my friends no matter how often they need help or how inconvenient it is because that’s what friendship means.

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Anonymous #6 5w

yeah then when you really need some of that support and you don’t get it, let’s see how much more therapy friend you have in you.

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Anonymous #2 5w

When you care about people they tend to care back. Try making actual friendships instead of your shallow imitations of them. A bunch of selfish dicks trying to justify their selfishness.

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Anonymous #6 5w

Lmao imagine trying to justify a toxic friendship jeez. Bear the load??? lol it’s called having boundaries. Everyone has their own load and it’s up to that person on how much of another person’s load they can take. At the EOD not responsible for another person’s load and all I can do is advice them on proper professionals who are & can fully equip them with the tools they need to help themselves. If anything it’s selfish to have ur problems take a mental toll on someone else u call ur friend…

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Anonymous #6 5w

Please feel free to watch a couple YouTube videos on toxic friendships I suggest JaidenAnimations as she explains it perfectly. See how I’m referring u to a tool u can use while not sacrificing my mental health to help u understand and just like how im now establishing a boundary…im done with this convo 😭. Not gonna help u #6 if u don’t help urself

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Anonymous #9 5w

Frankly jaidenanimations and that tumblr psychology is fine for giving kids a bit of context but it is not a “source” or “tool” worth jack shit. Yes we all have our burdens to bear, but if I see my friend being crushed under theirs I would rather be crushed with them than let them suffer alone. If I am struggling as well it is my job to let them know that I can’t help them right now, but this emotionally detached clinical bullshit is not friendship in any capacity.

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Anonymous #6 5w

you are completely missing the point and you sound like an absolute idiot. no one said anything about “venting a little bit” being bad, but i’m not going to argue back and forth with an obtuse brick wall who refuses to understand what we’re saying (or maybe you really are just that stupid)

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Anonymous #6 5w

and also maybe #9 recommended a child’s video for you because that’s all your puny little brain can comprehend. you sound like you have a savior complex and are in need of serious therapy. please seek help, hope you get better ❤️

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Anonymous #8 5w

If calling me an idiot makes your hurt feelings all better then be my guest, though your opinion on the subject is worth less than your false friendships. Whole lotta cope for being called on being a shit friend. And no savior complex, though I’m sure your diagnosis was very professional, I just happen to give a shit about the people around me, and they give a shit back. The things I talked about are nothing more than basic fucking courtesy to someone you are supposed to care deeply about.

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Anonymous #8 5w

Cope harder, I hope your friends realize how shit you are before they are in need of help.

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Anonymous #8 5w

Haha u get it! I like u!✨

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Anonymous #11 5w

This is why women need to stop vaulting relationships so much. If we left at the first red flag we wouldn’t be conditioned into anything

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