Icks on Yik Yak | why dont men see sex as an expression of love? like im here to share something beautiful.... but men see it like conquering territory. like they're winning & we're losing something. they need to feel superior and us as inferior its dehumanizing asf.

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Icks 3d

why dont men see sex as an expression of love? like im here to share something beautiful.... but men see it like conquering territory. like they're winning & we're losing something. they need to feel superior and us as inferior its dehumanizing asf.

Anonymous 3d

Women be putting dudes who fuck a lot on a pedestal

Anonymous 3d

Not true. I love you babe ❤️

Anonymous 2d

all these men in the comments telling you they’re “not like that” like refusing to address this attitude in other men isn’t part of the problem too 🙄 you’re right. men do frequently do this and you’re valid for feeling this way. there are good men out there but they’re coincidentally never the ones who say “but *I* don’t do that” when a woman points out a widespread problematic behavior 🫶

Anonymous 3d

This really depends on the man to be honest. Plenty like myself do see it that way. Just like how some women see it as nothing more than “having fun.”

Anonymous 3d

Not all men some women are like this actually. I know my bf isn’t like this

Anonymous 2d

As a man, I don’t put as much pressure on sex compared to building genuine bonds through shared activities and whatnot. Sex is just a physical form of what I already feel about a person already

Anonymous 3d

I’ve never looked at it like that. I think you’re in your head

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Anonymous 3d

Because women make it difficult to sleep with them , so as a man being able to get past her unavailable attitude to 99% of men is a flex.

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Anonymous

#2 3d

locker room talk.. men getting praised for sleeping around while women get shamed.. you really dont have to look far to see what i mean (patriarchy)

Anonymous

OP 3d

Women brag about having sex with men too… not sure what you’re trying to get at

Anonymous

#2 3d

i hear u. but bragging about having sex is NOT the same as a being sexist & subconsciously believing women arent equals. im sure many other women know where im coming from.

Anonymous

#5 2d

happy you found that ❤️❤️ but every man who i really trusted ended up saying something that made me reanalyze our relationship/ friendship 💔

Anonymous

OP 2d

Same for me every single man did me dirty in my life until I found my bf. It’s out there just be patient

Anonymous

#6 2d

thank u for understanding!! men in the comments dismissing womens lived experiences is ALSO apart of the issue

Anonymous

#6 2d

I think it’s unfair to frame this like all men who disagree are part of the problem. A lot of guys are not trying to dismiss anyone’s experiences. They are just pushing back against being generalized or told they all share the same mindset. Most men I know do see the intimacy as meaningful and connected to love. Real conversations happen when both parties can talk without assuming bad intentions. Calling out toxic behavior is valid, but it is also valid for men to say “that doesn’t represent me”

Anonymous

#7 2d

i hear u. disagreeing isnt bad, and open conversation is beneficial! but it is definitely dismissive & detracting to get comments like "ur in ur head".

Anonymous

OP 2d

This is exactly what I’m talking about. One guy saying it’s in your head does not speak for everyone…