Anonymous #6 1w

it really is that serious though.

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Anonymous #9 1w

No it’s not Fse😂😂

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Anonymous #2 1w

you think it’s not that serious when people sexualize children? fucking weirdo.

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Anonymous #9 1w

How is it sexual? Swear yall say anything on the internet😂😂

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Anonymous #9 1w

you just be thinking anything is sexual huh

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Anonymous #6 1w

if you think this isn’t sexualizing children then I’m keeping children away from you

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Anonymous #9 1w

lmao twin you on a whole different topic now 😹

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Anonymous #6 1w

it’s literally the same topic, you’re lwk just delusional and want to justify saying a literal child is going to either seduce women or be a shitty partner. I hope you never have kids if you think it’s not that serious.

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Anonymous #9 1w

it’s not the same topic. “he’s going to be a heartbreaker” is an idiom. in no way is that sexual or related to your random picture. lighten up 😹

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Anonymous #6 1w

deleting ur shit after sounding so confident is embarrassing asf ngl

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Anonymous #3 1w

you don't hug your kids?

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Anonymous #12 1w

I don’t have kids but I don’t try to hug kids. My family will say “oh give [my name] a hug/kiss” to my little cousins. And a lot of them barely know me because we live in different states or countries so they don’t want to hug or kiss a stranger and I don’t think they should learn to push through that.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I was a camp counselor and the rule there was don’t touch kids unless they ask for it and it was good to learn how often kids will ask for it. I feel like that’s a much better lesson, ask for what you need and you’re in control of weather or not adults touch you and how.

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Anonymous #3 1w

For people that aren't in your family, absolutely you should never touch them under any circumstance. If they're in your family, give the kid a hug. It's good for the soul. Even if they're awkward about it it lets them know that there are people in this world that care about them which is all too easy to forget in this day and age.

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Anonymous #12 1w

I think it’s good to learn to ask for what you want. But I see the benefits of your approach too though.

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Anonymous #3 1w

yeah it rlly depends on age cuz most kids don't rlly know what they want so they can't ask, that's why your family makes decisions for you until you're 18

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Anonymous #12 1w

My campers were 8-13 and they were pretty good at it. But I take babies out of their parents arms even when they cry bc they need a breakkkk

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Anonymous #3 1w

13-15 is where I'd stop hugging a kid in my family unless they came in for a hug (which they always do cuz I give the best hugs) but younger than that yeah bro you're getting hugged. Gotta know the fam there for you. Again anybody elses kid even at a camp I would say literally never touch unless they explicitly asked for a hug or whatever. NO REASON to be touching other ppls kids unsolicited.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Why can’t we normalize high fives for shy people :(

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Anonymous OP 1w

High fives don't give your brain a dopamine rush line a hug does

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Anonymous #12 1w

For shy people hugs can drain them and make them more anxious

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Anonymous OP 1w

maybe in some specific cases but for the most part if it's family it's good for the brain studies show a hug longer than 5 ish seconds literally releases a dopamine rush it's a programmed bodily function, that's how humans show each other affection. obviously there's some fringe cases but i'm speaking about the general masses, the 95%. obviously you know your family so... that's just my opinion

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