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Saying flirting at a bar/party isn't cheating but getting mad when I call their bluff when I say I'll do it too then
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Anonymous 5w

I would skin my bf if he was doing that ngl

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Anonymous 5w

Maybe both of you are toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis3.1 5w

I said oh so if I flirted at a bar/party you wouldn't mind? and they got mad right after saying they could do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Good for you calling em out on some babyback bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis3.1 5w

L take. OP was clearly just giving them a taste of their own medicine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeah & if their medicine is toxic then they’re doing the same toxicity. It’s fighting fire with fire. Nobody is forcing Op to stoop to their level. She chose to do that on her own - toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis3.1 5w

So I should just end it and not point out that if they don't like then I don't like it either therefore I won't? I'm a dude and she has more than this only double standard so I stopped seeing her but it sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m just saying you can express your distaste for what she’s doing without threatening to do it too. That’s just fighting toxicity with toxicity and usually that only escalates shit. Know your self-worth. Tell her what you don’t like and why you don’t like it. If she doesn’t agree to stop then you have your answer and you can leave knowing you did the right thing without compromising yourself in the process. Don’t stoop to their level, that’s all.

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