Anonymous #2 5d

If you think spending money on your gf is to see her and not because you love her, then i think those men shouldn’t date

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Anonymous #1 5d

Yeah, when I’m taking a girl out on a date the first couple of times I definitely don’t love her.

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Anonymous #2 5d

You explicitly said ‘dating’ and not going on dates they are very different

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Anonymous #1 5d

Dating includes the process of getting a girlfriend in the first place. If I meant specifically getting a gf I would’ve said that.

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Anonymous #2 5d

That process is not included

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Anonymous #1 5d

I’m not sure why we’re arguing semantics when you could just be like “oh ok”. I am not in love with a person during these stages of a relationship and yes, I see it as spending money.

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Anonymous #2 5d

I mean what does future intimate relationship mean? If it means marriage then my point still stands but if its not marriage then i wanna ask you if you do a one night stand is that dating cus you are doing an imtimate act where you can figure the sustainability of future relationship?

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Anonymous #1 5d

Well no because it does not include a) a date, b) the POTENTIAL for a relationship. The first date with a girl does include those things

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Anonymous #1 5d

With the definition i gave a) corresponds to the “social event” part and b) corresponds to the evaluating suitability part

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