That’s why you don’t hit on them brother. Be normal and talk to them as an equal. Don’t put someone you don’t know on an unnatural pedestal because it might come off weird. But if yall have that connection, that pedestal treatment becomes a rlly great thing. Ask for a number, ask to get coffee, have breakfast, study together, etc, and if it’s a no shrug it off. Chalk it up to they’re not interested & you won’t see them again so it don’t affect you. Then keep it pushing
A million things happen to everyone each day. And we all live our lives with things burdening our minds. I can guarantee you, 100% of the time, if they see you again it would be the last thing they’d think about twin. Trust me. Your mind will always make things like this seem worse than they are. Rejection can be a scary thing. It’s okay to be scared of it. But you can’t ever hear yes if you live your entire life scared of the chance of the no. You feel me?
There’s never really a perfect time. If you keep waiting for that perfect moment you’re gonna find it never quite comes. You’ll keep psyching yourself out, saying it’s not quite perfect, and then the chance will slip away. Just ask man. Walk up to someone after class, say “hi! I thought you were really handsome/pretty…” and ask for a number or whatever from there. If you see someone walking, say “hey, excuse me-“, and if they dont hear you, it’s no big deal, just keep doing your own thing
Then start there. Try making a few friends this week and let me know how it goes. If you think someone is cool, tell them you think they’re cool and ask if they’d wanna be friends. If they react negatively at all they’re weird, especially in college. Normal people don’t do that when someone asks something like this