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hey everyone!! my roommate is cheating on her long distance boyfriend and i’m conflicted!! upvote if i should tell him (we are from the same hometown so i could get his contact)

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Anonymous 5w

Definitely should tell him. It’s simple respect. He doesn’t deserve that. Cheating is so wrong. Like if you want someone else, breakup with your current. It’s not that hard.

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Anonymous 5w

I would recommend waiting until you are no longer roommates before you tell him, because remember you guys still have to live together and it’s hell living with a roommate that hates you😬

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Anonymous 5w

Na tell the dude that’s disgraceful. Just tell the bf to not snitch on you so you don’t got beef

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Anonymous 5w

Yes tell him

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Anonymous 5w

What if you told your roommate that either she needs to tell him, or if she won’t you will. That way there’s a little transparency there and it doesn’t look as much like you’re a “snitch”

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Anonymous 5w

absolutely tell him!!!

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Anonymous 5w

try to get her to tell him but if that just isn’t an option tell him

Anonymous 5w

tell him and then run off and date him

Anonymous 5w

all the cheaters in this comment section loud asf

Anonymous 5w

Oh girl there is no way in literal hell that I’m getting between that kind of drama with my roommate!! I don’t know much of anything about their relationship, the cheating, the bf, none of it- they’re literally long distance! I DO know with certainty that if I hunt down her bf and tell him I am 100% COOKED

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Anonymous 5w

No it’s legit not ur place to step into their personal lives and you still may be wrong. Also don’t cause problems with the person you have to live with

Anonymous 5w

Give us an update what happened

Anonymous 5w

Tell him but do it in a way that she won’t know it was you bc you don’t wanna be dealing with a hell roommate for the rest of the year

Anonymous 5w

I dealt with this exact situation my freshman year of college, I told her that it’s either she tells him or I tell him. She was sleeping with another guy two hours after her and her boyfriend said that they loved eachother for the first time. But after I gave her that ultimatum, she must’ve said something to him bc they (her & bf) ended up coming to the conclusion that she should transfer schools to be closer to him so that she didn’t “feel the need to get attention from other men.” 🤦🏻‍♀️

Anonymous 5w

Yup. Yell him. Asap

Anonymous 5w

Tell himm

Anonymous 5w

Give her a ultimatum. Say you can tell him or I will. If she doesn’t then you tell him.

Anonymous 5w

Obviously tell him, and don’t be friends with a cheater

Anonymous 5w

Based on experience, it never has gone well to tell. So be prepared. I lost my best friend since childhood when her HUSBAND (they married somewhat young) hit on me. I had the receipts that showed he was the initiator and I had shit it down. I still got punished. You’re in a situation where you have to live with this person. Just be careful and know that people ‘in love’ can make crazy choices. They may not even believe you no matter what evidence you present. You’re in a no-win situation. Sorry.

Anonymous 4w

if y’all are not friends i would jus go about my business bc people get real delusional about they women/man and pick they significant other side and it gets u involved in unwanted messy drama but if that’s ur friend tell her it’s wrong but i wouldn’t get involved in that mess i’d leave it alone eventually what stays in the dark comes to light!

Anonymous 4w

If she’s your good friend don’t tell him if you aren’t friends then tell him

Anonymous 4w

TELL HIM!!! This is coming from someone who cheated once because I was a fucking piece of shit and was selfish with the relationship. It is abuse and it needs called out. I’m happy I had friends who called me on that and I’ve since learned and made amends. But it’s still abhorrent behaviour and it’s not okay.

Anonymous 5w

How much longer will you be roommates for? If it isn’t much longer I would tell him after she’s gone. If not, it’s up to you. Ideally you tell him asap, but if you don’t have a plan for what happens after she hates you, you could be forgiven. As long as you tell him eventually

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t tell him it’s not your business. All it’s gonna do is start unnecessary drama between you and your roommate. Let him find out on his own, because he definitely will at one point.

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Anonymous 4w

Tell him bro

Anonymous 4w

girl mind ur business 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 5w

Honestly if you guys are not that close where you tell eachother personal things then you could tell him out of respect if it really is a moral obligation for you. However if you guys are close or atleast tell eachother personal things definitely tell her about it first and possibly give her the ultimatum option. It gives her the chance to fix things in her own relationship first.

Anonymous 4w

Talk to her. Remind her that you know her boyfriend and let her know this is really hard not to talk to him about. Have the conversation a couple days before you go home. Let her know she has until you leave for home to tell him herself or you will do it. You won't lie for her and you won't keep secrets.

Anonymous 4w

That's not your business sista . You must want him

Anonymous 4w

tell him anonymously like a fake number or *67 or a fake insta account DM

Anonymous 4w

Yeah definitely tell him

Anonymous 4w

Tell her that she can either tell him or that you will for her.

Anonymous 4w

Maybe they’re on a break! 🤣 Seriously, a lot of couples agree they can date others while they’re away at school

Anonymous 4w

She needs to break it off. Cheating is garbage behavior

Anonymous 4w

Tell himmmmmmm I got cheated on before and I’d want to be told if it were me

Anonymous 5w

Honestly wait to say anything until winter break and if it gets bad between yall, move dorms

Anonymous 4w

Would you want someone to tell you if you were in his shoes? That should answer your question

Anonymous 4w

Tell him anonymously

Anonymous 4w

i did this to a roommate my freshman year, told the gf and he was mad but she was very thankful. its scary but save the partner the heartache.

Anonymous 4w

girl i can’t even lie. if you tell him it’s gonna make living tg absolutely MISERABLE — id honestly dm him off a fake account or text him off a fake number that way he finds out but its not traced to u at all

Anonymous 4w

Why is she still with him??? Why is she holding on and at the expense of him? Ppl so scared to break up when they’re young, thinking it’s the end of the world, even if they’re already cheating…

Anonymous 4w

Do it

Anonymous 4w

Dm him off a random account

Anonymous 4w

no #womeninmenfields

Anonymous 4w

Tell him 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

Anonymous 4w

Tell him

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Anonymous 4w

Tbh my biggest regret from all of college is NOT snitching on a roommate who cheated on her long distance boyfriend. It’s true that it could make for an awkward housing situation, but in my case it would have been worth it bc the roommate turned out to be evil regardless lol

Anonymous 5w

My roommate did this too and I hinted it to him when he came to visit and he didn’t get the idea and then he ended up finding out anyways

Anonymous 5w

100% tell him. It’s simple respect. Whether u guys are roommates or not. She’s causing it and doing the actions so she will get the rightful effects and backlash of it.

Anonymous 5w

Tell him

Anonymous 5w

Snitching is wrong unless it’s cheating

Anonymous 5w

You should say something but tbh I wouldn’t bc i don’t like getting involved in other peoples shit. If he’s long distance then he might be cheating too you never know maybe it’s an open relationship lmfao but seriously cheating is fucked up

Anonymous 5w

If anything be anonymous!!

Anonymous 4w

Don’t tell her tf stop being nosy and mind your business girl it’s her relationship

Anonymous 4w

Ooo it’s complicated because in one hand, that’s horrible that’s she is cheating and the guy should know but on the other hand.. and not defending the roommate but yourself. You’re living with the person for 2 more quarters pretty much and that seems like a hell to live like that. Unless you can find a way to let the boyfriend know without knowing it came from you, I wouldn’t. Plus it seems like you aren’t close to the boyfriend in anyway (not justifying but in this case, it seems best to wait)

Anonymous 4w

Yall ppl saying don’t tell him but you would want someone to tell you right?

Anonymous 4w

this sounds crazy but the same thing happened to me but the boyfriend didn’t believe our dorm floor at all when we brought it up and he got mad at us

Anonymous 4w

If you want him just say that, that’s had literally nothing to do with you

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Anonymous 4w

what’s it your business fr it’s not happening to you so just mind your business

Anonymous 4w

You need to mind your business. If he ain't your man , friend , cousin or brother then it has nothing to do with you . All your gonna do is get ur self in something that has absolutely nothing to do with you

Anonymous 4w

It’s none of your buisness especially since you don’t know him.

Anonymous 4w

Definitely. Almost any guy in this comment section will agree. Make sure you have evidence though because she’ll try to get out of it.

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Anonymous 5w

You’re weird affff if you tell him and must lowkey want him lmfaooooo

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Anonymous 4w

Tell him

Anonymous 4w

Do it just don't let him share who told him

Anonymous 4w

it’s honestly not your business and you should not make it your business. you are just her roommate and getting involved in her life is not your job. you’re just putting yourself in the middle of something that has nothing to do with you. I’d understand if you were his friend but seeing as you don’t have any of his information, you should leave it alone. he will eventually find out, they always will and she will eventually get her karma and it will have nothing to do with you.

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Anonymous 4w

Tell him because what if they’re fucking RAW ?!!

Anonymous 4w

Exactly why im not friends with other females, snitch & a cockblocker

Anonymous 4w

1. talk to her or 2. wait until the end of the semester. i don’t think it’s really your business but you could encourage her to leave him if she doesn’t want to be loyal! but don’t tell him if you’re still living with her

Anonymous 4w

None of your business

Anonymous 4w

I have done told on my friend for this before and I disagree with cheating (obviously). This is clearly an ethical dilemma but at the end of the day you aren’t in their relationship and for a lot of people it could be dangerous to tell a bf this. He could be abusive. U truly do not know anything about their relationship and I never understood this until I was on the other side of it. I hope she leaves him but I also think that’s her problem - not yours to insert yourself into.

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Anonymous 5w

That’s not your place

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Anonymous 4w

MIND UR BUSINESS I would have said yeah if he was ur friend and u already know this man and have contacts him before but now thats just making drama in ur living space. Sit tf down respectful for ur sake

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Anonymous 4w

not your business

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Anonymous 5w

no fuck these hoes tf

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Anonymous 4w

You don't know what term their relationship is on, you might ruin something that could be solved or something thing really beautiful. I'm against it unless you are his best friend

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Anonymous 5w

No, her relationship is not your business. Is it right to cheat? No. But they will probably break up anyway.

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Anonymous 5w

wtf no that’s none of your business. i would never cheat but if someone else wants to not my problem?? your her roommate not her mommy you don’t get to control her life

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Anonymous 4w

No no no

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Anonymous

#5 5w

What kinda romance bs is this?!

Anonymous

#22 5w

Fr, it’s disgusting

Anonymous

#8 5w

This is such a good point. I would give her an ultimatum or at least come to her and let it be in her court and let her have the opportunity to.

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#8 5w

they could speak up anonymously and give evidence that can’t really be tracked to them. Planting seeds could unravel things hopefully

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#7 5w

nah too risky especially if they make up. Gotta do it anonymously

Anonymous

#28 5w

idk why there’s all these downvotes i support you girl

Anonymous

#25 5w

THANK U

Anonymous

#39 5w

It’s literally about respect. I’m sure if you were in his shoes and getting cheated on, you’d want to know and not be in the dark

Anonymous

#42 5w

Shut* it down 😂 whatever

Anonymous

#42 5w

I’m sorry u went through that. But it’s crazy how some people can’t see what’s in front of them. You can go to some girls with respect and proof that their significant other is cheating or whatnot, and they’ll bash you and stay with them. It’s craz

Anonymous

#39 5w

I’m thinking the same thing!! What’s does her cheating on her bf as anything to do with you?? I would hate to have yall as my roommate just mind your business

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#44 5w

no its just cheating is wrong. but maybe youre js a hoe

Anonymous

#44 5w

I can tell ur single… if not then ur a cheater lmao. Weirdo

Anonymous

#39 5w

I hope u get cheated on and get left in the dark abt it

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Anonymous

#36 5w

There are literally so many things we don’t know about this person and their boyfriend. We don’t know how much proof there is or if they r open at all. What a horrible thing to wish on somebody

Anonymous

#36 5w

learn to live and let live🧘‍♀️

Anonymous

#28 5w

Obviously the person who made this post and the cheating girlfriend are close enough for her to disclose information about her bf AND another person that she’s entertaining while in a relationship. It’s sick

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Anonymous

#36 5w

You literally don’t know that from this post

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Anonymous

#15 5w

Please. If it was truly about morals, she would simply remove herself from the friendship and allegiance to the CHEATER. WTF does she owe that man? What is she hoping to gain from telling him? That dihh of course

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#28 5w

She literally straight up says that her roommate is cheating on her boyfriend. If there’s no proof then that’s a different story. But if this person comes forward to ask about what she should do, there’s more than likely proof. And even if there isn’t, and it’s just word of mouth or whatnot, letting the girls boyfriend know is the right thing to do so he can confront her about it.

Anonymous

#44 5w

It’s a sense of morals and knowing the difference between right and wrong…

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Anonymous

#36 5w

If it is word of mouth, a whole relationship and roomate ship will get blown up

Anonymous

#28 5w

If it’s word of mouth, then the couple should talk about. With the amount of trust that SHOULD be in relationships, it can be resolved if isn’t fake info and lies

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Anonymous

#36 5w

Using “single” as an insult in big 2025. You must either be a lost time traveling concubine from the 1700s, or just as dick obsessed as OP

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#44 5w

Well correct me if I’m wrong, but if you think it’s okay not to step forward about someone cheating on their significant other, it’ll be pretty shitty to ur partner knowing how you feel about cheating (obvi don’t care that much and probably will/are cheating) but ur wrong im actually from the 1600s!!😜😜😜

Anonymous

#8 5w

this is actually a really good point, unless it’s easy for y’all to not be roommates/for you to move out, it would be wise to wait until it would not potentially turn your living situation hostile

Anonymous

#47 5w

I mean homegirl is rly doing this to herself. The truth will eventually come out regardless. But truthfully, the girl can’t be too mad at the person who made this post, like she has it coming lol

Anonymous

#36 5w

that is also really fair, i’ve just had some really crazy ass roommate situations and it can totally fuck up everything if you are uncomfortable in your living situation

Anonymous

#47 5w

No I 100% understand. Some girls will go crazy, but at the end of the day, I think speaking up is the right thing to do. Or like a few other comments said, to give an ultimatum to where either the gf tells him, or she will

Anonymous

#36 5w

yeah that is definitely true it is definitely the right thing to do that he finds out regardless

Anonymous

#36 5w

You’re so weird to comment that and yet be against cheating lmaoooo

Anonymous

#49 5w

Ur saying that as if ur FOR cheating. Ppl are behind me lmao

Anonymous

#36 5w

I don’t understand it. In my case, she stayed with him and we ended up somewhat reconciling and she apologized. Then shortly after, found out he was having a full on affair with her other close friend. I advocated for her to leave, she just got mad at me again. WILD.

Anonymous

#42 5w

Thats actually insane, she does not deserve u as a friend if she can’t look past her ego to see the truth

Anonymous

#44 4w

You are def single 😹

Anonymous

#54 4w

Ewww

Anonymous

#38 4w

Pussy bitch

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Anonymous

#30 4w

Calm down

Anonymous

#35 4w

kinda like a reverse hey girly… “hey dude…”

Anonymous

#44 4w

Are you even old enough to comment on this thread?? You're talking like a 12 year old who wants attention...

Anonymous

#12 4w

it was a joke oh my god😒

Anonymous

#60 4w

This way, you give her the opportunity to do the right thing and tell him herself. If she doesn't, then she knows what you are going to do and when.

Anonymous

#66 4w

This is the correct answer. It gives her a chance to come clean, but if she doesn't she knows when you are going to tell him.

Anonymous

#67 4w

It can’t be that beautiful if she’s cheating on him lol

Anonymous

#4 4w

^^^^

Anonymous

#54 4w

You’re genuinely so gross

Anonymous

#67 4w

If it's smthn that can be solved then they can solve it after he finds out

Anonymous

#44 4w

You can not like a guy and still tell him about cheating because you think it's the right thing to do??

Anonymous

#29 4w

This would be awesome as well. Give her the chance to tell him

Anonymous

#65 4w

tbh ur not required to say anything even if someone didn’t tell me it’ll come to light eventually it doesn’t matter when u gotta catch the red flags early men will tell on themselves with they shitty actions it’s ur relationship nobody is required to say shit that’s they choice

Anonymous

#7 4w

you sound like a pussy

Anonymous

#44 4w

Tell us you’ve cheated without telling us you’ve cheated

Anonymous

#44 4w

Bro?? What are u on about

Anonymous

#4 4w

Okay, but you know men would never do this for random women they don’t know. More likely they will help their cheating bros (or even random men) cover their asses! If a woman you know is cheating on a man you don’t know = not your business. You owe him nothing (esp if she is a good roommate)! Cheating is bad but it’s not murder, if a female friend does right by you it’s the couple’s issue. If HE is your good friend and she’s not your bestie/sister, DO tell him

Anonymous

#81 4w

You’re weird. You’re basing this off of some made up scenario of men being bad. I tell all my friends I’m telling their gf/wife if they cheat. Should definitely tell

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#28 4w

^^^^this, sorry to everyone who disagrees. I go to therapy twice a week, and my best friend recently cheated on her boyfriend and lets just say, I didn’t have to be the one to tell the boyfriend because it blew up on its own. Worst position I’ve ever been in but my therapist told me to save my own ass over the boyfriend’s and to stay out of it. best advice I’ve ever gotten.

Anonymous

#82 4w

This happened a lot to my female friends, their exes bros lie for them to cover up them cheating

Anonymous

#82 4w

You are goated for this if true but you’re the exception not the rule

Anonymous

#88 4w

Ur WEIRDDD

Anonymous

#88 4w

Whack mentality, weirdo

Anonymous

#36 4w

i hope you get cheated on and it’s public for the world to see

Anonymous

#72 4w

Happily in a relationship!! And thankfully we both agree that if one of our friends are cheating on their partner that we would tell no matter how close we are🤪🤪

Anonymous

#36 4w

then worry about you and you only tf . you sound like a pick me

Anonymous

#72 4w

Take ur own advice and then don’t worry abt this post and my comments☺️

Anonymous

#93 4w

I’d go the approach of drilling into her head that she needs to break it off and what’s she’s doing is wrong first before contacting him. There could be more going on than you know and it could get messy btwn yall.

Anonymous

#81 4w

Smb else doing smth shitty shouldn’t excuse u doing smth shitty

Anonymous

#99 4w

Nah let him know cuz letting it go is encouraging that behavior

Anonymous

_ass_ 4w

there’s a difference between encouraging and ignoring. if she is outwordly saying “yes girl go cheat on him period” there’s something wrong with her morals and she would be encouraging. if she moves on with her day and focuses on the test she got tomorrow or hanging out with her friends later instead of her roommates business, she’s not encouraging anything, if anything she’s dismissing it.

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#98 4w

I’m not even telling anyone to cover for a cheater, just to mind their own business and not reveal it UNLESS the guy is a good friend. That’s incredibly reasonable because you don’t owe it to a random unknown person (man or woman) to be their relationship police anyway

Anonymous

#36 4w

Cool k , everybody has there own opinions but all it's going to do is cause unnecessary issues . If you can avoid conflict why not ??? Like hello are you cool

Anonymous

_ass_ 4w

Again my opinion, I guess I'm Whack for telling someone to avoid conflict 😂. But its people like you do that like drama

Anonymous

#88 4w

you’re not whack for telling op to avoid conflict. you’re whack for insinuating that op wants the bf

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Anonymous

#24 4w

Again my opinion tf , said what I said

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Anonymous

#88 4w

alr then don’t complain when ppl say you’re whack 🤷🏻

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Anonymous

#81 4w

I am a man, I would and have before snitched on boys who I know are cheating. I cannot respect a cheater or those who cover for them, and I know all my close friends would say the same. It is morally bankrupt at a minimum. do not stereotype all men to fit the actions of a few.

Anonymous

#55 4w

Encourage her to tell him then. Why insert yourself into their business / relationship? I think this girl is forgetting where her loyalties lie- considering she is friends with the girl, not the girls bf. She shld ask her friend why this is happening and talk to her friend and express her disapproval.

Anonymous

#21 4w

Exactly. Also I think this is the right thing to do instead of someone inserting themselves into a relationship that they might not know everything about.

Anonymous

#60 4w

Fax

Anonymous

#103 4w

Frrrr

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#105 4w

A woman snitching on another woman 😒I already dont like 2025 u supposed to support even if the girl is wrong

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Anonymous

#103 4w

Cheating is ABUSING YOUR PARTNER and is dangerous. This guy is getting lied to, manipulated, could possibly contract an STI from her, and you have no idea who will retaliate how. If i were getting cheated on I would love to know matter who is telling me

Anonymous

#75 4w

Having a backbone and morals is more important than dogmatically supporting all women

Anonymous

#64 4w

cheating is abuse and traumatic, people deserve to know if they’re getting cheated on

Anonymous

#75 4w

cheating is abuse and traumatic, people deserve to know if they’re getting cheated on

Anonymous

#75 4w

thats crazy

Anonymous

#104 4w

I mean in my opinion if you cover for them even if you don’t know either of them you’re damn near as bad

Anonymous

#41 4w

Cheating and cops. Always snitch on cops.

Anonymous

#81 4w

holy projection dude, both men and women can be gross people, grow up.

Anonymous

#81 4w

Nah, if someone is cheating then it does not need to be respected. Call it out.

Anonymous

#89 4w

I pray this happens to you

Anonymous

#81 4w

I need whatever youre smoking bitch

Anonymous

#29 4w

That’s some sneaky, snitch a$& stuff - it’s literally none of your business

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Anonymous

#112 4w

Nah, there’s no sympathy to be had when cheating.

Anonymous

#112 4w

Then I hope that nobody tells you if your partner cheats on you 🤣

Anonymous

#112 4w

I see where your coming from. But realistically it would be the right thing to do. We all have our opinions and I understand yours but from personal experience I’d want to be told.

Anonymous

anointedpriestess1 4w

EL O EL

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#69 4w

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Anonymous

#72 4w

Women spreading disease NO

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anointedpriestess1 4w

Says the one most likely to carry.