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Unpopular opinion ig I hate the titles “birth giver” “cis women” “chest feeder” why can’t I just be a women…
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Anonymous 3d

i’m afraid i don’t see your argument with “cis woman”. it’s a real term. the other two i do understand though, since they’re more objectifying and describing a woman just as things she’s “supposed” to do.

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Anonymous 3d

no one is making you go by any of these… “i dont like bean soup” ahh post

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Anonymous 3d

“A women” opinion invalidated

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Anonymous 3d

I agree tbh. Chest feeder sounds fucking gross. And if I can’t be identified as anything other than what I’m expected to do thennnn that’s a problem

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Anonymous 3d

I feel like terms such as these dehumanize women and the process of birth

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Anonymous 3d

Ive only ever heard birth giver being used by people who have estranged moms, so unless your kids are no contact, you’re probably fine there

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Anonymous 3d

i’ve never heard any of those except cis women, which is a normal term…

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Anonymous 3d

cis woman and trans woman are just adjectives for woman. I've only seen birth giver and chest feeder are so ridiculous they're used for irony. Why is this an issue?

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Anonymous 3d

*woman, woman = singular vs women = plural. And you are a beautiful WOMAN!

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Anonymous 3d

No, your real for that. People are just so opinionated today😥

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Anonymous 2d

“Cis” is the only one that is not a choice. Everything else is something people have an option of accepting or calling someone else; if you present and identify as the gender you were born as you are CIS-GENDER NOT TRANS-GENDER. It’s NOT a new term, it’s NOT something invented by the “left”. You are either cisgender or transgender, period.

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Anonymous 2d

Always blame the Leftists. You see, too much of anything is a bad thing. However, it is possible to be “too” progressive. That’s why in their pursuit to be as progressive as possible they end going down the path of dehumanizing mothers and fathers, ESPECIALLY mothers.

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Anonymous 2d

You can’t be a women because women is plural and you physically cannot be more than one person. You can be a woman tho 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Ohh I see a small grammatical error 😅but I don’t think that invalidates the overall claim

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Tf does bean soup have to do with this

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3d

someone posts about liking bean soup and all of the comments are “ew i hate bean soup”, the posts, in this case identifiers, just arent for them and therefor dont have to engage with it whatsoever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

If you’re talking about the person who just gave birth, that’s a birth giver. If they’re chest feeding…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Chest feeder is used in a medical context to refer to someone of unknown gender who is actively chest feeding.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

this is not a hill worth dying on since the terms aren’t commonly used in a medical setting anyways, and they’re not used because many (understandably) find them objectifying, including trans people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

But I’ve never had bean soup before

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2d
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Anonymous replying to -> #15 2d

But men can have breast too, actually it’s quite common and literally refers to organs on a human body? I don’t mean this in a anti-lgbtq+ way I’m just very curious because my neurodivergent brain is not understanding the logic behind this

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2d

No you’re completely right. Breast is the correct medical term. Which both men and women have. It’s actually quite weird people want to remove the term breast like they’re erasing men having breasts from reality. Wait until “chestfeeder” advocates find out about male breast cancer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Dw people try to find any way to invalidate a good argument even if it’s one tiny error that has no bearing on the argument itself

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

"always blame the leftists"... yeah that's a cognitively sound way to form opinions

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

On top of what #14 you are conflating leftists (some of which hold the values you stated) with Liberals who subscribe to liberal philosophy (most of which hold the values you stated). I would agree that many liberals (particularly white cis college educated ones) harp about identity politics to a degree that seemingly alienates the diversity they claim to want to make space for and creates an electorally focused mindset that does not have room for the messy nuance of changing local politics.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2d

You also are being incredibly vague in the context of the #OP’s post when all you say Liberals (not Leftists let’s not mince words) are ‘pursing being as progressive as possible’ because you are assuming a reader understands that you are speaking only in the context of identity politics (?) and furthermore not showing why being overly progressive actually dehumanizes anyone cus the whole point of more progressive identity politics is to combat that and 2 of 3 terms above are doing the opposite.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 2d

Srry for grammar I’m a yapper and I hate character limits

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 2d

it was a joke oml 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 2d

yeah the chestfeeders thing isnt a leftist thing it’s a performative liberal thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 2d

Omg really it’s not like I didn’t already address the grammatical error earlier 🤗

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

It’s not even a grammatical error but my fault for not reading through every single comment ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 2d

Technically it’s a spelling error

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2d

Bot

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 2d

Say it again and see what happens

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Anonymous 2d

Hey dipshit, a bot would get it right every time. The inconsistencies should prove they’re human if anything 🤦🤦🤦

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Anonymous 2d
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Anonymous replying to -> #20 2d

Ik they are human I called them a bot as in insult cus they are saying some stupid shit but ik thinking is hard so it’s all good

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 2d

All I said was it was a spelling error which is factually and objectively correct. Some other dude said all the other shi ur talking about. Low iq ahhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 2d

Some of us are autistic and interpret things as they’re actually written 🙌

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

To clarify, as #19 stated. There is a fundamental difference between being a liberal and a leftist. I’ve always blamed the leftists for being the sole group who plagued us with Trump because it’s like newtons 3rd law of motion. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Under Obamas second term the leftists were at their strongest and were so absolutely confident they would get their democratic socialist future they so desperately wanted. But in their ignorance, they nominated

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

hillary instead of Bernie Sanders. And that’s when it all fell apart for them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2d

I was JUST talking about this in another thread, that’s when the DNC shattered all illusions for me. Bernie literally had 2/3 of the votes at one point too, about double the other candidates combined

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 2d

Being trans isn’t a choice either, dipshit

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1d

Who cares if you mean in it an anti-lgbtq+ way? Stop tap dancing to make yourself feel good. Women 99.9% have breasts and men don’t. Men just have useless nipples. Sheesh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Then you have to admit the Dems practice in election rigging. They did it against Trump in 2020 and I fucking barge Trump. But that’s why we have him in office now as the second president in U.S. history to serve non-consecutive terms.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

Woman and man are purely subjective terms and are a sociological human construct. The terms you’re looking for are “assigned male at birth” and “assigned female at birth”

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

I’m not saying they’re the ones rigging things but they sure as shit aren’t doing anything tangible to stop the other side from doing it, which makes them complicit at best

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

they didn’t say it wasn’t, I think you’re misreading

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Yeah ur def misreading lol I’m just saying people are going to be called cis whether they like it or not and they really need to get over it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

this is some conspiracy theorist shit 😭 Hillary is barely liberal, if that. why would leftists want her lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

did you read the comment abt how men get breast cancer or are we just saying shit

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