Anonymous #1 1d

I don’t really see how that’s relevant to op’s post. Either way, it’s still fucked on their “friend’s” part.

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Anonymous #2 1d

You… don’t? Did you read the post? You only get to be possessive of one person at a time. Dumping someone you don’t want for yourself and then interfering with his personal life anyway is like the most psychotic behavior ever. Whatever kind of manipulation she had underway is clearly unfair to him and not worth protecting. Just don’t throw away your toys until you’re actually done with them

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Anonymous #1 1d

Ew, what are you on?? People aren’t possessions or toys, you don’t get to be possessive over anyone. It’s the fact that op literally warned her not to and she did it anyway, which there can be reasons that we don’t know. No matter the reason, she still fucked her friends ex which is nasty behavior when you include op voiced their discomfort. It’s not about being possessive, it’s about personal lives intersecting and potential disrespect

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Anonymous #2 1d

Monogamy is inherently possessive as that term is actually used. “Don’t fuck my bf bc he’s MY bf.” IS possessive. And that’s ok, if it’s reciprocal. But u can’t say “you don’t get to be possessive over anyone” & also that her friend was wrong for doing this. Vetoing someone having sex w/ someone else is absolutely possessive. Again, ok if it’s ur partner. But she’s apparently trying to control the sex life of two ppl she’s NOT in a relationship with. Just doesn’t have that authority.

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