my friend (bi) keeps saying she’s gonna“turn lesbian” every time she breaks up with a man and it’s so exhausting:( she exclusively dates men and it rly rubs me the wrong way. she’s said she’d never date a woman so its frustrating. idk how to confront her-
-about it. it feels really bad to hear her say that as a lesbian and she doesn’t get it when i try to explain:( just bc men annoy you doesn’t mean you are gonna turn lesbian. idk.
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Anonymous14w
I think you could just sit her down and set a hard boundary about her to not say that around you anymore?
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Anonymous14w
This gives off the same energy when two friends are like “if neither one of us gets married by this age we’ll just marry eachother”
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Anonymous#114w
yeah ur right! it’s just that i’m hesitant about it because i’ve tried talking abt it before but i feel like she just didn’t want to have that conversation. i’ll try to find a gentle way to approach it so she doesn’t feel attacked. ty for the response!