
i don’t know many lesbians irl that do it but i’ve heard that some do. for the most part, it was popularized because of porn. it’s uncomfortable for almost everyone and it’s not necessarily the most efficient way at finding pleasure. some lesbians like it tho but not my cup of tea personally
the way it happens in porn is mostly a porn thing. but people do “scissor”. i can only talk from my experience as a trans woman (with a cis girlfriend) but for me it works pretty well as interlocking thighs and dry humping, and is honestly pretty comfortable to do that lying down vs the gymnastics porn actors do to scissor