I'm too old (30) to find people at school or parties, I'm sober so no bars, and I have zero interest dating 18-20 year olds I meet online, plus weed is a deal breaker for me and I live in a hippie state and I have one other belief that makes me a major red flag to most other queer women. I also don't think I can give enough attention to a relationship to really have a healthy one.

7