Anonymous OP 19h

So men should have to change themselves for women instead of just being ok with the fact that they aren’t getting laid?

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Anonymous OP 19h

Just let ppl say they arent getting laid and live with that. No should HAVE to change for anyone to deserve affection platonically or romantically

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Anonymous #1 19h

youre dodging the point like that guy from the matrix

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Anonymous OP 19h

theres a difference between "change who you are" and "shower, get a hobby or interest, and try to learn and grow every day". yes there are women that believe in unrealistic beauty standards, but for the most part is just like, hey, dont be miserable to be around all the time. i wouldnt date a girl who was immature, didnt take care of herself, had zero passions, etc either; men arent special

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Anonymous OP 19h

My point is You get to name your own experience. Being undesirable is a mix of things neither of you control, and some people‘s way of dealing with that is to name with their experiencing. So let them. Because it’s not an unreal experience thats only in their head. They are actually not able to get laid and that’s fine. That’s nobody’s fault. That’s the advice

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