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I cannot figure out whether I’m a lesbian with comphet or a bisexual with the largest preference for women ever and I’m losing my mind. I feel so lost. Please can anyone give me advice or words of encouragement. I’m so miserable
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Anonymous 20h

i say don’t stress about it too much and let the answer come with time. Ik it’s prob nerve wracking for you, but i think it can provide some peace knowing you like women and i feel like that’s key. you can explore that lean more if you so please, and maybe they’ll help with your answer

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Anonymous 11h

I’m going through the exact same thing, I think the hardest part is the pressure to label yourself to be accepted or find community but I think it’s ok to experiment and do things when they feel right.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

**that’ll help with your answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

Yeah I second this. I'm currently questioning my orientation (I'm currently straight but I might like women idk 😭) it has caused me a lot of stress and anxiety just not knowing. It really upset me that I just didn't know who I was. Ultimately I feel that mindset was harmful for me, I've accepted that it's ok not to know or to have an answer as to what I am. It'll come to me eventually. It takes a lot of time to accept that not knowing is ok but it's so worth it.

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