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As a bisexual man some straight women really ick me out sometimes. They can fall into either a “you should kiss a man while I watch” type of biphobia or a “if my boyfriend has so much as touched another man I’ll kill him and myself” biphobia. Both suck.
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Anonymous 1d

As a bi woman I get the same from men. I’m sorry man ☹️

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Anonymous 1d

Sometimes I fear I’m biphobic as a gay guy because I feel like I might be overly attracted to bi guys because in my mind if a bi guy wants me that means he wants me out of all the other people in the world and that’s really affirming also because as a gay guy gay men get on my nerves a lot easier which is a different issue I need to work on

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Anonymous 1d

This is why I want to be with other bi ppl

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Anonymous 17h

bi women have the same mindset too alot of the time for some reason like? u can be bi but i cant???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m sorry you get it too. I just wish we were respected as people and not either fetishized or demonized

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Also I’m really sorry you have to deal with biphobia king you deserve love without prejudice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I wouldn’t say your biphobic :) - bi m

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yea but it kinda is uncomfortably close to fetishizing or overly romanticizing which can be problematic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I get what you mean but at least you’re aware of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Plus all the bi guys I’ve met are legit so hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m going to have an ego and take this as a compliment to me and me alone 😛

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

That’s why I’m only gonna date a bi person lol. I’d hope to get less of it. But that’s hard to find in the south

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

I would like that too but I have never in my life had another bi person like me back. So idk if that’ll be happening anytime soon. So it seems I’m gonna be with gay men for now

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

I’ve noticed that too! There are definitely some bi women out there with some internalized biphobia who love to gatekeep bisexuality for some reason. No clue why because nowhere in the definition of bisexual does it say “women only”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I’ve dated one guy and one bi girl. Both went a little badly. But I’m in college I have a lot of time to find someone.

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