I tend to have uncontrollable rage when my sister and people in general make comments that I “am not a real man” and compares me and my job to being “less manly”. For contact I’m a cis hetero guy.
I really despise that my manhood of manliness is often brought into question all because I do not do manual labor.
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Anonymous5w
how do other people have fragile masculinity for you???
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Anonymous5w
To a lot of people my sexual orientation is a joke and it is a sign of weakness. Which is annoying
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AnonymousOP5w
*or manliness
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Anonymous#15w
I also get a lot of comparison to her stepson (who works in construction) or to my uncles (who also do construction) and get drunk at every possible moment.
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AnonymousOP5w
sounds toxic as hell. actually, comparing someone to others is textbook toxic behavior
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AnonymousOP5w
I don’t mean to be rude but how? You said you are hetero? I’m just trying to understand
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Anonymous#25w
great question
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Anonymous#25w
Hi I will clarify. I am gay. But according to people in my family my sexuality makes me “less of a man” or me “wanting to be a woman” or is something of fascination/entrtnmnt