I say this because there’s been multiple times someone says I can be a lesbian bc I’m a non man. And then say “yeah nonbinary people like connection to womanhood.” And then I say I don’t have a connection to womanhood and they’re all up in arms. Like sorry I’m nonbinary and NOT A WOMAN??? Or they’ll say “femininity” and get mad when I say I don’t have a connection to femininity. I’m A BUTCH